Does Japan suit Aspie sufferers?

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Out of curiosity, I did a quick web search and found this from http://forum.gaijinpot.com/forum/living-in-japan/relationships/99680-having-aspergers-syndrome-and-having-a-successful-life-in-japan:

Have long wondered about that.

Japanese culture seems very aspie-flavored to me.

But on one hand- Japanese society is brutally intolerant of odd individuals, but on the other hand- if you do conform you're conforming to a norm that is more aspie-like than that of American culture. So I figured that its probably a double edged sword.

But I met a NT lady at the local aspie/autie support group (with her severely PDD grown son) who had long worked for the State Dept. in Japan. She said she knew many successful Japanese who "probably couldnt make it here" because of thier aspie traits. So on balance some aspies might indeed be better off had they grown up in Japan.

But ofcourse- for any American (NT, AS, or otherwise) to move there as an adult and try to integrate into Japanese society is something else entirely.

I have long suspected that Asian countries would treat people with Asperger's better

I have lived in Asia for a decade. I was far more comfortable there than in the US. It is expected that you will be quirky, and it is obvious to everyone from your appearance (assuming you are not Asian in appearance yourself) that you are an outsider. People take the time to explain what's expected. People cut you more slack (usually). It is also easier to make acquaintances abroad -- anyone who is a fellow foreigner is to some degree a "friend", but not the sort of friend who wants to get so far into your head and be everything to you. It's useful to have people to do things with without having all the emotional baggage. Also, if you are above-average intelligence, the fact that you need to deal with a different language and culture keeps things interesting enough to avoid boredom.

I was never in Japan specifically, however, so I can't speak to possible specific annoyances, like sensory issues, crowding, etc. For some reason certain things that bother me in my home country did not bother me in Asia, or didn't bother me as much.

the only plus for me would be close to Nintendo headquarters.

Would probably be like one of the last places i would go to live.

Being wierd, odd and tall, yeah ill fit right in. No infact you want to find a smaller country im sure there is more out there like Denmark 6 million population or whatever.

Last place i want to live, is a place where there is smog killing people like you smoked 20 each day, people living cramped together like rubiks cube, and there is like no nature almost.

I've spent some time in Japan and although I do have an obsession with manga and anime, I would recommend not staying for a prolonged length of time. They will treat you like an outsider no matter how long you stay there, and if you are not Asian, you will get a lot of attention anywhere you go. Prejudice is more prevalent in Japan than in the States. I learned of Koreans who migrated to Japan generations ago and they are still denied jobs and positions at the top ranked universities because of their ancestry (There's something called the family registry where they check what town your family came from when applying for jobs). My professor moved to Japan from Great Britain and he applied to be a Japanese citizen. He'd been living in Japan for 30+ yrs. and he was kept from entering a hot spring in Hokkaido because he would "contaminate" the water.

Asian culture also does not treat mental illnesses/conditions/neurological disorders very well. It's treated something like the "shame that must be hidden and not acknowledged." Also, anime and manga are seen as more of an underground nerd thing or thing for just children even in Japan. You would need to go to a place like Akihabara for the otaku culture.

I've read that many Aspies visit or relocate to Japan because their extremely polite and accepting society is very tolerant of AS quirks.

Also, since Japan is the world's capital of weird s**t, you'd expect their culture to be pretty tolerant of AS weirdness.. which is very mild compared to some of the weird s**t that comes out of Japan. Seriously.

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Also, being treated like an outsider because you're an aspie in the States is very different from being treated like a gaijin in Japan. Here, even though I do come off as awkward and sort of strange, I can blend in and people won't bother me. There, people give you strange looks when riding the train. I'm Asian too but I was told that they just know you're different from the way you walk/the way you carry yourself.

Don't get me wrong though. It was nice to go sightseeing and Japanese people are very polite. I really did enjoy my time, but I would not recommend staying for longer than a year.