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29 Jan 2014, 11:04 am

It's just a nice way to say obsession.


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30 Jan 2014, 2:19 am

bumble wrote:
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I would be inclined to disagree that we don't understand the meaning of the facts we learn; I for one understand every aspect of all my interests. It would be hard to have a real conversation with someone about the interest if, when they asked what something meant, I couldn't tell them.


Yeah, that part is BS and insulting.
Some people only think something has meaning insofar as it can be used to advance you socially. The facts are interesting for their own sake.


I am not sure that is what the poster you quoted meant.

I think they mean fully understanding whatever subject is their special interest. Not that facts can't be interesting in their own rights but it depends on what your aims are. If I develop an interest in Philosophy for example then I want to truly understand the philosophical theories I am studying. Social advancement has nothing to do with it...I want to understand my subject, and in actual fact, deep understanding of a subject can impair social advancement, especially if the people around you don't understand and can't keep up with you.

If on the other hand you just want to memorise facts because they are interesting to you in an of themselves then there is nothing wrong with that either.

It depends on your aim I guess.

I usually seek understanding but can be inclined, now and again, to seek out facts just because it entertains me to do so.


My understanding of my interest isn't just "memorising a collection of facts" either.
But what is there to understand besides facts? Even how they relate to each other and their implications can just be considered as more facts.


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30 Jan 2014, 5:40 am

A special interest for me is like the glasses I put on to make sense of the world. Sometimes I am in-between interests and that is an awful time for me.
For example: A long time my special interest was Doctor Who and it helped me made sense of the world. I pretended that we life in a world in which somewhere (somewhen? :lol: ) out there the Doctor is cruising around, watching, and BAMM world makes sense.

Difficult situation? What would the Doctor do. Big task ahead? How would the Doctor tackle it? Social nonsense happening? "Human customs are strange."

I also take over mannerisms of whatever my special interest is. That part freaks my boyfriend out. I miss my connection to 11th Doctor, but was is gone is gone. :(



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30 Jan 2014, 6:05 am

my mother used to have a special interest. she was always looking for them at the supermarket.



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31 Jan 2014, 7:14 pm

Rebel_Nowe wrote:
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I would be inclined to disagree that we don't understand the meaning of the facts we learn; I for one understand every aspect of all my interests. It would be hard to have a real conversation with someone about the interest if, when they asked what something meant, I couldn't tell them.

I agree with the previously stated sentiment that it is offensive. I think it's more a matter of finding different or significantly abnormal meaning to things. Hell, I'd say that the posts in this topic support my theory that aspies/autists find more meaning in Special Interests than the average NT finds in the subject. The catch is that we need to. We are known for thinking in narrow, specific, and individualized ways. Because of this relative lack of functional cognitive breadth, we struggle to make the regular piecemeal connections between information and meaning across a variety of subjects and situations like NTs do. The purpose of a special interest is instead to gain a thorough and complete grasp of the information, logic, and meaning of an interest so that we may then try applying larger sets of meaning and logic to other parts of our lives to find useful parallel logics and meanings.

For example, my biggest Special Interest, by a wide margin, is gaming. I can waste hours reading detailed numerical descriptions and experienced reviews of classes and items and abilities on GameFAQs or Wikias. I have many years of gaming under my belt. I use these experiences to get me through much of life. I have learned to think of other parts of my life like parts of a video game. I used to dress in a much more typical aspie fashion (loose fitting, attention diverting, sensory issue centric, same few things forever) until I started thinking of clothing as equipment. I now take much more into consideration when deciding what clothing to buy or wear. I think of clothing as having stats like WRM (warmth), APPL (Looks, fashion, Appeal), CFT (comfort, feel), etc. I plan packing for trips or overnight shifts like gearing up for a level. I need clothing to fit the situation (Ice Resist gear exists both IRL and in many dozens of games xd), enough consumables for the duration of the stage (ample Sam-E, NAC, Focus Factor, and Energy Shots, generally) my primary gear (phone, wallet, keys, sometimes DS/3DS) and any supporting equipment for my primary gear (chargers and games, always back to games x_x). Then I think about my pre-battle gameplay: my in town preparation for heading to Tartarus. For example, Job Interviews (Boss or Hard+ difficulty stages) want Focus Factor with breakfast, then an Energy Shot 45 minutes or so before. They also require clothing with decent PROF (Professionalism) and APPL.

Okay, got out of hand there. How true does this idea ring to you all?


I like that idea, it makes good sense to me. I do similar things with my interests, for instance, I rely on my interest in Star Trek to get me through different social interactions by recalling how the characters dealt with a similar situation. Pulling from Seven of Nine (my avatar) is especially useful, because she was assimilated into the Borg (mindless nonautonomous half-robot half-biological humanoid species) collective when she was six, and rescued when she was 24. All those years of being a slave to the Borg Queen meant she never developed social skills, and from the outside behaves very much like an aspie, right down to her sensory issues left over from the biomechanical implants the Borg put in her to improve her senses, which now leave her highly sensitive to a lot of stimuli. Anyway, I find Seven very useful to draw from, because she made many classic aspie mistakes, which were then pointed out and corrected by other members of the crew, and in teaching her, they were teaching me too.


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