Thanks everyone for your replies.
EzraS wrote:
Yes I do. But this is common with NT's as well. I was reading a discussion recently about a song called Lola by The Kinks, and so many people were saying they had no idea the song was about transgender. i have to look up the meaning of many songs I like if i want to know what they are about.
Interestingly, several people in this thread mentioned the "Lola" by the Kinks (and the fact that many people had no idea what the song was about). Well, neither did I. I just liked the song because it had a nice sound and told the story of some guy dancing with a girl and drinking "Coca Cola”. LOL.
So, from my perspective, there are two distinct things happening here.
The first is being able to actually
hear the individual words (in a song) and string them together (in effect, you know the words to the song). The second is being able to
infer the meaning of the words, once you have successfully strung them together.
Regarding being able to
hear the words. At times, I seem to have issues picking up distinct words. Interestingly, I sometimes have similar problems when listening to people talk (this could be in a conversation, when listening at a meeting, while watching a movie, or ...). It could be an executive functioning thing – where so many words are being streamed at once with a lot of other noise in parallel, that I don't have the bandwidth in short-term memory to process everything quickly enough. I am not certain.
Regarding being able to
infer the meaning of the words. Even when I know the words to a song (which I can look up on the Internet), I oftentimes am puzzled by what it means. I, too, was amazed the first time I learned that Lola was about transgender. I actually had to read the lyrics several times to convince myself that it was about transgender. This happens often for me. When words are suggestive, but not explicit, I just won't get it. Interestingly, I had the same problem when reading novels.