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09 Apr 2014, 1:08 pm

Hi Bumble,

That would have been great if you were able to move to Stratford-Upon-Avon, for obvious reasons.

When I was young, I used to read about Louis Leakey with awe. It turns out that his major find at Olduvai Gorge was merely a robust australopithecine (oh well :D ). I think he mentored both Dian Fossey and Jane Goodall. I was more sad by Louis Leakey's passing away than most of whom I'm supposed to be "close" to.

Richard Leakey left school at 16, then later pursued his own anthropological career. He made some major finds in Ethiopia. I'm not sure if he discovered Lucy; but I think he was connected with it at least somewhat. He lost both his legs in a plane crash, then became a Kenyan politician. Interesting family!

I'm from New York City.

Norfolk seems like a nice area. You mentioned the culture of Norfolk. How would you describe it? Is it an insular culture? Do they speak with a special accent--like they do in Cornwall and Yorkshire?

By the way, I think you're a person who has a good head on her shoulders.



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09 Apr 2014, 1:21 pm

Where I live?

There be no street lights where I be livin' there be and I wonder if one day, I do, if I shall find the villagers standing outside with Christopher Lee, an' their Wickerman an' pitchforks an' torches to the ready.

I need an Edward Woodward, it seems...



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09 Apr 2014, 1:24 pm

LOL...I don't get the reference. I wasn't trying to make fun of Norfolk. I'm an American with personal knowledge of only Greater London. I'm really curious about how the people are there.

I believe, in Anglo-Saxon days, that it was a very northern part of the Kingdom (of Wessex?)



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09 Apr 2014, 1:30 pm

I am not sure. I know that Worcester was a Roman city but I lived there for longer. There was some history there with Cromwell.

Norfolk is mostly a collection of small villages and market towns. Very quaint but very country bumpkin in a way. Not much room for a social life, there is nothing in the village I live in except the local pub and they were not very friendly in there. I am not keen on pubs anyway. It does have a lot of old churches and I believe there may be a early human settlement nearby:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/scie ... urope.html

It is a beautiful area but the people here are not very accepting I guess. Cliquey.

http://www.museums.norfolk.gov.uk/Visit ... /index.htm



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09 Apr 2014, 1:41 pm

Thank you.

LOL....I'd kill to get a cottage on an English seacoast. I'd kill to get a cottage, period. I live in a pretty nice garden apartment in a development (what you call an "estate") in the borough of Queens.

I'm not a pub person myself. The only reason why I'd go to is to taste some pub cuisine. I also like throwing darts. Some of the pub signs have historical significance. If I had time while in was in England, I would have taken a picture of many pub signs.

The last time I went "bar-hopping" was when I was in my early 20's; I'm in my early 50's now.

I hope you are successful in your quest for a nice place in a more culturally-palatable region.



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10 Apr 2014, 1:23 pm

Please stick around. I always enjoy reading your posts and would hate for them to stop. Your posts always get responses. That shows you are a valued contributor. Getting through this bad period is the priority. Is there a 24 hour suicide hotline you could call? Can change your next appointment with your therapist so it happens as soon as possible?


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10 Apr 2014, 1:50 pm

bumble wrote:

1 I am not ego driven and don't believe in all this superior/inferior bollocks. I have an ego but I am actually not dominated by it. Bulling works by stripping away a persons confidence or sense of self worth. I don't believe in things like worthlessness so the bullies can't attack me that way. Nor can they strip my confidence as my skill level and results that I achieve speaks for itself. So they use other tactics...they ostracise me, socially isolate me in order to cause me emotional distress that way. It is pure spite not because there is something wrong with me but because they are jealous of me, or they feel threatened by me so they need to push me down to the bottom of the social pecking order so they can feel better about themselves. This means I am unlikely to have the usual self esteem problems but will still experience emotional distress due to forced isolation. .

ah now I understand what you were talking about on your other thread about people being worthless or not. You were feeling disappointed and sad because of the bullies. And I bombarded you with a bunch of anthropologic theories. Sorry about that.



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10 Apr 2014, 1:53 pm

linatet wrote:
bumble wrote:

1 I am not ego driven and don't believe in all this superior/inferior bollocks. I have an ego but I am actually not dominated by it. Bulling works by stripping away a persons confidence or sense of self worth. I don't believe in things like worthlessness so the bullies can't attack me that way. Nor can they strip my confidence as my skill level and results that I achieve speaks for itself. So they use other tactics...they ostracise me, socially isolate me in order to cause me emotional distress that way. It is pure spite not because there is something wrong with me but because they are jealous of me, or they feel threatened by me so they need to push me down to the bottom of the social pecking order so they can feel better about themselves. This means I am unlikely to have the usual self esteem problems but will still experience emotional distress due to forced isolation. .

ah now I understand what you were talking about on your other thread about people being worthless or not. You were feeling disappointed and sad because of the bullies. And I bombarded you with a bunch of anthropologic theories. Sorry about that.


It's fine. Sometimes the anthropology stuff can be very interesting. It can take my mind off my woes. No need to say sorry.