I'm overly self-concious, have trouble being myself

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Jensen
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06 May 2014, 2:51 am

desertnomad wrote:
I'm the same way. I wish I could be myself but when I am around others I mostly just think about how they view me.
I was like that well into my fourties.


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06 May 2014, 4:18 am

mr_bigmouth_502 wrote:
Is it normal for an aspie to be so worried about what others think of you that you have a hard time "being yourself"? I know a lot of people on here don't. but I feel quite repressed by society and the people around me. I want to let it all out, and let my "freak flag" fly, but it's like I have a mental block preventing me from doing so. I even feel somewhat repressed online, where I often feel I have more freedom to express myself and what I like.


^^ I feel the exact same way and it dose trouble and get on my nerves allot.



06 May 2014, 8:52 am

Hello there, I'm having such issues myself too and often I find myself worrying if I will ever be as good as the other people I know who don't have aspergers. Now things have improved for me and are going to improve further because I'm not going to compare myself with others. I have recognized my condition and have made up my mind to love myself for who I am, not what someone else expects me to be.