Callista wrote:
And for these ladies, it's a major problem to smell everything and notice it too strongly! And that's just one sense, not all of them the way we are. Haha, man, if they had our lives, they'd probably curl up and whimper.
My therapist has on multiple occasions told me that if she had to deal with sensory stuff like I do that she's pretty sure she'd never leave her house. My response is "its just how I am".
It'd take me too long to really describe my sensory issues, sensing things too much, not sensing them enough, needing more, needing to avoid it, getting false information, not being able to use my body "properly", its all just normal to me. I can have long conversations about my sensory issues, and its widespread enough that listing things I have problems with isn't reasonable. My therapist has asked me to do that before, I couldn't. Migraines, loss of effective vision, loss of speech, freezing in place and being unable to even move out of somewhere toxic to me, getting so overloaded that I can't do basic self care for weeks afterwards; these are things I'm used to.
But, that doesn't mean I don't go, and don't do things anyways. Because I don't want to hide away, despite having a sensory system that wants me to hide away (and still have issues then). I want to accommodate myself, my needs, and deal with the fact that I'm disabled, but want to do thing anyways. I want to learn, and volunteer, and play games with people. I want to go to Boston and get good ice cream instead of being afraid to go to the city.
Oh, sensory issues could mean you hide. But you don't need to. My therapist is wrong. When you have them you don't hide, because you want to live anyways, and find how to, and do it no matter how hard it is. You just also admit your limitations, and take them into account.