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I can understand body language from instinct but it's hard to tell that to some Aspies here because I get the same old standard ''how do you be that sure that you know body language? You might think you do but you might be really crap at it.'' And then when I write down a few situations from the past what are proof enough that I can read body language and tone of voice and all that well, I still get answers like ''in those situations there must have been a very obvious hint from somewhere, you probably didn't read body language'' or ''maybe someone has taught you that kind of body language a few years ago, so you know from memory more than instinct''. It's as if to say ''no no, you're an Aspie, it's impossible to be able to read body language from instinct....''

Ohh, ifs, buts, ands and maybes do drive me insane! Why can't somebody just agree and believe me, instead of making me out to be in denial?!