dianthus wrote:
emandeli wrote:
Leave me alone.
Why can't you just leave me alone.
Get out of my way.
You are in my way.
Be quiet.
Get away from me.
I need to leave.
I have to get out of here.
Stop doing that. (tap tap tap)
You're being too slow.
You're talking too slow.
I can't handle this....
Could you stop?
I don't really want to visit.
Most of those aren't really normal things to say. It may feel normal and natural to you to say them, but other people don't view it as normal. It's not typical for people to say those things to each other, except maybe close family members. My mom and I will say things like that to each other, but we do it humorously and we don't take offense to it.
Sometimes I WANT to say those things to other people but I don't. Like when I'm shopping in the grocery store, and someone is taking forever to look at something and they are in my way, I want to bark "HURRY UP YOU'RE IN MY WAY." But I don't do it.
I didn't think of the store scenario, yeah don't say anything. Unless there is something on the shelf you want, just tell them excuse me and ask if you can get the item off the shelf and thy will be glad to move so you can grab the item and they can go back to looking. If someone was rude to me, I would take my precious time. People can just go slower when you're impatient.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.
10 Oct 2014, 2:38 pm
