How would you explain your symptoms to a psychiatrist?

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16 Nov 2014, 2:27 pm

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I will PM you an example of what I mean.


How should I get this to my psychiatrist copy and paste into Word maybe? Or print it out directly? Or maybe ask him toreador it online?


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16 Nov 2014, 5:08 pm

I just meant that as an example, but use it if it helps.

I never realized this but you're right, it isn't obvious to me how to print, other than like you're saying, select all, copy, and paste into a document to print. Does anyone know how to print?

Good luck Jeni!! When is your appointment?



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16 Nov 2014, 5:38 pm

Waterfalls wrote:
I just meant that as an example, but use it if it helps.

I never realized this but you're right, it isn't obvious to me how to print, other than like you're saying, select all, copy, and paste into a document to print. Does anyone know how to print?

Good luck Jeni!! When is your appointment?


Should I pirint what you posted in my thread or print those threads separately

My appointment Is December 7 I believe do you have any more examples for me that I could show him i? Also should I show this to my therapist to?


By the way I am using the speech to text a lot


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16 Nov 2014, 6:37 pm

That's irony for you. Steal a persons idea, rudely have side conversations about it excluding the person who gave it, then ask questions the person who came up with the idea could have easily answered had they not been excluded. Live and learn I guess.



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16 Nov 2014, 7:08 pm

"I always miss subtle queues like when a person is not interested in what I am saying. A person assures me that he or she isn't really bored, and I end up just taking them literally. I don't realize I've made a mistake until that person is already mad at me or ignoring me."

"I have trouble telling the difference between a real smile and the smile of someone who is making fun of me, and I get hurt a lot."

"I seem to stay confused about what people expect of me. I'm a nice person, and I really try to make people happy with me. I end up either offending people, being a doormat, or both. I'm not a naturally unhappy person, but I don't like not being able to show people that I care."

"I sometimes get into situations in which I am overwhelmed and frustrated, and the way I show this can upset or scare other people. I'm not a hateful or disrespectful person, but I look like one when these happen."

"I have trouble making friends, and I have a history of people that I thought were my friends just using me."

"I try to talk to people of the opposite sex, and what I think are nice things to say get taken out of their intended context. It's the same stuff I hear other people saying, but for some reason, it's 'creepy' when I say it. Some people try to tell me it's about the 'timing,' but it's like writing with my left-hand: people who do it naturally seem to think it's easy, but it's always awkward."

"I tried to make what I thought was an innocent joke to a person who worked at a small store while I was looking around, and the cops were there as soon as I walked out. I still don't understand why the remark was taken as alarming."

"Some people have explained to me that the stuff I like talking about are just things that nobody is interested in. Well, I'm interested in those things. The things that other people talk about don't even make sense to me. It just comes across as mumbling...like it's in another language or something."

"Someone once told me I had a 'dry sense of humor.' I asked 'what is a wet sense of humor?' and that person thought it was a joke. I still don't know why it was funny."

All of these apply to me. Just say, with complete and total honesty, what applies to you.



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16 Nov 2014, 9:42 pm

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That's irony for you. Steal a persons idea, rudely have side conversations about it excluding the person who gave it, then ask questions the person who came up with the idea could have easily answered had they not been excluded. Live and learn I guess.

I'll assume that you have something more constructive to suggest to Jeni to add to what I wrote? Because I don't see how you were excluded other than that as an adult and a parent I notice Jeni says stuff adults in her real life might if they saw not let her be on the Internet so I PMed her. No one's excluded you any other way, and she already said she lost Internet when she was in the hospital, I think losing Internet could be really hard. Don't you?

Besides, I think this is an autism support site. If you're offended by something someone does that isn't directly abusive maybe understand we don't all understand every social nuance.



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16 Nov 2014, 10:02 pm

jenisautistic wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:
I just meant that as an example, but use it if it helps.

I never realized this but you're right, it isn't obvious to me how to print, other than like you're saying, select all, copy, and paste into a document to print. Does anyone know how to print?

Good luck Jeni!! When is your appointment?


Should I pirint what you posted in my thread or print those threads separately

My appointment Is December 7 I believe do you have any more examples for me that I could show him i? Also should I show this to my therapist to?


By the way I am using the speech to text a lot

I think you can do it either way. Definitely showing your therapist makes sense, maybe he or she can advocate better.

You seem better today, or maybe just focusing on smaller things helped. Sometimes I just have to close my mind to what's too much.

I hope you understand, I worry for you because from my point of view, it seems like you're vulnerable if your grandmother learned about the video. I didn't mean to seem like I talked down and I didn't mean to start an argument with anyone and I'm not understanding why anyone needs to get mad, but I hope you just can focus on getting back to yourself.



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16 Nov 2014, 10:08 pm

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Besides, I think this is an autism support site. If you're offended by something someone does that isn't directly abusive maybe understand we don't all understand every social nuance.


I think that sums up my response to you perfectly.



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16 Nov 2014, 10:10 pm

kicker wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:

Besides, I think this is an autism support site. If you're offended by something someone does that isn't directly abusive maybe understand we don't all understand every social nuance.


I think that sums up my response to you perfectly.

I don't understand



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16 Nov 2014, 10:13 pm

Persimmonpudding wrote:
"I always miss subtle queues like when a person is not interested in what I am saying. A person assures me that he or she isn't really bored, and I end up just taking them literally. I don't realize I've made a mistake until that person is already mad at me or ignoring me."

"I have trouble telling the difference between a real smile and the smile of someone who is making fun of me, and I get hurt a lot."

"I seem to stay confused about what people expect of me. I'm a nice person, and I really try to make people happy with me. I end up either offending people, being a doormat, or both. I'm not a naturally unhappy person, but I don't like not being able to show people that I care."

"I sometimes get into situations in which I am overwhelmed and frustrated, and the way I show this can upset or scare other people. I'm not a hateful or disrespectful person, but I look like one when these happen."

"I have trouble making friends, and I have a history of people that I thought were my friends just using me."

"I try to talk to people of the opposite sex, and what I think are nice things to say get taken out of their intended context. It's the same stuff I hear other people saying, but for some reason, it's 'creepy' when I say it. Some people try to tell me it's about the 'timing,' but it's like writing with my left-hand: people who do it naturally seem to think it's easy, but it's always awkward."

"I tried to make what I thought was an innocent joke to a person who worked at a small store while I was looking around, and the cops were there as soon as I walked out. I still don't understand why the remark was taken as alarming."

"Some people have explained to me that the stuff I like talking about are just things that nobody is interested in. Well, I'm interested in those things. The things that other people talk about don't even make sense to me. It just comes across as mumbling...like it's in another language or something."

"Someone once told me I had a 'dry sense of humor.' I asked 'what is a wet sense of humor?' and that person thought it was a joke. I still don't know why it was funny."

All of these apply to me. Just say, with complete and total honesty, what applies to you.


Well done, that's excellent stuff.



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16 Nov 2014, 10:24 pm

Waterfalls wrote:
kicker wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:

Besides, I think this is an autism support site. If you're offended by something someone does that isn't directly abusive maybe understand we don't all understand every social nuance.


I think that sums up my response to you perfectly.

I don't understand


I'm sadly not surprised.

I was hurt, because I felt excluded, your response was to alienate me even more, because you were offended. Yet expect me to appreciate the fact that it's an autism website, when you obviously only want to respect that it is one for your own gains. Does that clarify it for you?



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16 Nov 2014, 10:52 pm

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I don't mean to be disrespectful, but what goal do you hope to accomplish, in seeing a psychiatrist.

Is he supposed to give a you a pill?


Diagnosis opens up resources like therapy, SSID, medication if needed (most likely for a comorbid), assistance in work or at school, housing, etc. There is much that can be accomplished.


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16 Nov 2014, 11:20 pm

kicker wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:
kicker wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:

Besides, I think this is an autism support site. If you're offended by something someone does that isn't directly abusive maybe understand we don't all understand every social nuance.


I think that sums up my response to you perfectly.

I don't understand


I'm sadly not surprised.

I was hurt, because I felt excluded, your response was to alienate me even more, because you were offended. Yet expect me to appreciate the fact that it's an autism website, when you obviously only want to respect that it is one for your own gains. Does that clarify it for you?

I'm sorry you felt excluded. What you're taking as offended is that I disagree with your characterization that rudeness occurred, though I understand it felt that way to you in the moment. I hope you find the inclusion you seem to be seeking.

I don't understand and I think it's better I not try to understand what you wrote in anger about "your own gains" as you are saying you are hurt and angry.

Have a good night.



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16 Nov 2014, 11:53 pm

Jen, I'm a little confused, given the state that your family is in and how they are reacting, are there any adults who are helping you navigate all this stuff with the doctors? I'm getting really very concerned. I just don't know what I can do, even if I tried to help, I have no standing to do so.



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17 Nov 2014, 12:22 am

Waterfalls wrote:
kicker wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:
kicker wrote:
Waterfalls wrote:

Besides, I think this is an autism support site. If you're offended by something someone does that isn't directly abusive maybe understand we don't all understand every social nuance.


I think that sums up my response to you perfectly.

I don't understand


I'm sadly not surprised.

I was hurt, because I felt excluded, your response was to alienate me even more, because you were offended. Yet expect me to appreciate the fact that it's an autism website, when you obviously only want to respect that it is one for your own gains. Does that clarify it for you?

I'm sorry you felt excluded. What you're taking as offended is that I disagree with your characterization that rudeness occurred, though I understand it felt that way to you in the moment. I hope you find the inclusion you seem to be seeking.

I don't understand and I think it's better I not try to understand what you wrote in anger about "your own gains" as you are saying you are hurt and angry.

Have a good night.


Actually it was said out of exasperation for having to explain your own concept to you of understanding, tolerance, and support. Have a good night as well.