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15 Jan 2015, 3:20 am

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It wasn't directed at you. Sorry if it sounded that way. I was thinking of what you said about intellectual memorisation and photographic memories and how it could affect conversation. It could go either way. Spouting entire memorised passages at someone wouldn't win too many friends I imagine.

That's not to say you're not a great thinker. :D


Oh, ok... Well, he entertained his numerous friends and family at his death bed by reciting Charles Dickens by memory. He used his memory as a kind of a parlor trick to attract people. I don't think simply spouting memorized passages would be effective, but if used properly with showmanship it would attract a lot people.

He sounds like he was an amazing man and an accomplished conversationalist. You sparked my interest so I read an article on him. I laughed when I read he would frequently drive whilst reading a book. I suppose that was the old-fashioned version of 'driving while texting'.
Thanks for that. I may read some more. He seems very interesting.


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15 Jan 2015, 4:49 am

Small talk can be thought of as the beginning of a conversation. It allows a speaker to gauge the general emotional states and personality types of participants.

It can actually lead to deeper discussions. You have a better chance of steering conversations toward intellectual topics if you express a curiosity about others and make the effort to get to know them.

And there are "parties" of all varieties. At one party I attended, we talked about philosophy for hours. It all depends on the people. Obviously it makes more sense to attend a party hosted by people you know rather than one with complete strangers.



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15 Jan 2015, 7:27 am

Norny wrote:
Small talk serves a purpose but I don't enjoy it at all.
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Small minds discuss people. Average minds discuss events. Great minds discuss ideas.
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Tell that to Eleanor Roosevelt.



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15 Jan 2015, 8:42 am

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I'm certain some of the greatest thinkers also indulged in small talk. There's a time and place for everything. Perhaps the definition of a great mind is knowing when and where that is.

GOOD post!



@ Protogenoi: I really liked your post about Von Neumann! I think he would've been a good daddy, cuz he could "read" bedtimes stories, from memory.



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15 Jan 2015, 8:55 am

Protogenoi wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
It wasn't directed at you. Sorry if it sounded that way. I was thinking of what you said about intellectual memorisation and photographic memories and how it could affect conversation. It could go either way. Spouting entire memorised passages at someone wouldn't win too many friends I imagine.

That's not to say you're not a great thinker. :D


Oh, ok... Well, he entertained his numerous friends and family at his death bed by reciting Charles Dickens by memory. He used his memory as a kind of a parlor trick to attract people. I don't think simply spouting memorized passages would be effective, but if used properly with showmanship it would attract a lot people.


Maybe he used his eidetic memory not just to memorize text but also to memorize what people had previously shown interest in. Knowing his audience like that would be a great trick indeed, and very attractive. If he could match the passage to the listener and spout Dickens passages to Dickens fans but Blake passages to Blake fans, for example, people would just hang on his every word.



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15 Jan 2015, 11:54 am

"Small talk" sometimes serves as a "lead-in" to more substantive talk

It might even serve the purpose of alcohol when it is consumed at parties which involve lots of music and society.



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15 Jan 2015, 12:56 pm

Janissy wrote:
Maybe he used his eidetic memory not just to memorize text but also to memorize what people had previously shown interest in. Knowing his audience like that would be a great trick indeed, and very attractive. If he could match the passage to the listener and spout Dickens passages to Dickens fans but Blake passages to Blake fans, for example, people would just hang on his every word.


I've been able to continue conversations despite a gap of a few years by remembering what we both said, even though I can't remember the name or face of the person I talked to. 8O



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15 Jan 2015, 1:22 pm

Small talk is good, as long as it's not about diets and makeup.


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16 Jan 2015, 2:34 am

What kind of mind do you have if you don't really discuss any of the 3?


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