Sedaka wrote:
i tend to make myself face things i don't like... like, i'm afraid of heights, but i'll try rock wall climbing, rollercoasters, and free-drop rides, and climbing trees and such... not saying i do them often, but i've defently tried to rub-out my fears in an obsessive manner... if that makes sense.
had mixed results with it w/e
Yeah, me too. And I almost never overcome them, no matter how good I do in the moment, they always come back to haunt me. Heights is a big one. I ski expert terrain. But when Im at the top hanging over the edge, that fear always grips me, and I have to fight it continously. Once I go over the edge and hit the powder Im fine.
And I always thought the fear would diminish the more I confronted it, but the opposite is true.
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