Aniihya wrote:
I constantly talk to people. The only conditions are that these people cannot be emotional as debates go to hell when people get emotional. I tend to like to debate with people rationally. I do it daily over Skype.
I am the opposite, I tend to get very emotional and so despise debating, I'd prefer to avoid it and chatter in a friendly fashion with someone who shares my opinions. Far less stressful for me.

I also find that I tend to try to emotionally distance myself from people whose opinions are the opposite of mine, because it's just too painful for me to get close to them; I can't separate the opinion from the person. There's a sort of cognitive dissonance in being friendly with somebody who doesn't share a core value of mine, and that sense of extreme unease never really goes away.
Unfortunately this means there are very few people with whom I can really get into indepth discussions about the things I care about. I don't know anybody IRL who shares many of my opinions, just people who tell me my opinions don't matter. :/
I have great respect for people who can be on close/friendly terms with those who are the exact opposite of them; that's something I could never do. (And I get lots of criticism about it.

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