BirdInFlight wrote:
jk1, I wonder if you have some of my posts in mind? It's very close to things I've posted on similar threads.
I can assure you that while I can be naive and trusting, this is one thing I've had enough variation of reaction regarding, and from a wide variety of types of people, in various situations, some official and where nobody would be seeking to flatter me, that I can pretty much gauge when someone is bullsh!tting me or not.
It's not hard to do after enough occasions of it. And I can assure you, without wanting to sound as bigheaded as this will sound, I really don't look 53. To a degree enough that it's caused shock and not fake shock.
I'm not saying there aren't little things that are catching up on me -- I don't like my jawline now and it will be the first thing to start giving me away. But seriously, I don't have a line on my entire face. I have peachy skin, mid-long hair, a teenage voice and I'm short and relatively slim. I have good posture and I wear jeans and t-shirts. I look in my 30s. And so far I've received genuine disbelief and I can tell the occasional bull sh!tter from the real ones, thank you very much.
Why is there ALWAYS someone in a thread like this who comes here to tell everyone they're being lied to about how young they look?
Lucky that I caught this response to my post before going to bed. It's only ~9:30pm but I was just about to go to bed as I have to get up at 4:30am tomorrow morning. I wouldn't like my post to make you feel down.
Any way, I definitely wasn't referring to your post. I don't even know where that post is. And I do believe that some people do look younger than their age. That's why I carefully said "Some of the people..." in my previous post. I guess as I used a 50-y-o woman in my example, you felt I might have been referring to you. It's just a coincidence. I just picked the age 50 in my example because I keep seeing ads about 50+ women looking 20 ys younger etc, and a woman because I'm a male and I didn't want people to mistakenly think that I was talking about myself.
I said what I said in my previous post because I've seen so many insincere people who are extremely good actors. Not just about age, but also looks, abilities etc. They say very positive things to others and then behind their back they say the opposite. That kind of behavior is so common that I can't simply believe nice things people say. Maybe I've become too cynical.
In general I avoid denying, criticizing, dismissing etc. what other posters say on WP as I really don't want them to feel even mildly attacked. Not that there's anything wrong with other posters politely disagreeing with each other. It's just my choice.
I just wanted to clarify what I meant.