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BirdInFlight
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26 Jul 2015, 7:43 am

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Not sure. I can't trust what people say. They may say to a 50-year-old woman, "Oh, you look like 35!!", and inside they think, "Wow, her skin is sagging and withered and she looks like 60! Yuk! Poor woman". That's how many people are. Some of the people that think that they look younger than their age must have been tricked by such people into believing it, because they actually look older than their age.


jk1, I wonder if you have some of my posts in mind? It's very close to things I've posted on similar threads.

I can assure you that while I can be naive and trusting, this is one thing I've had enough variation of reaction regarding, and from a wide variety of types of people, in various situations, some official and where nobody would be seeking to flatter me, that I can pretty much gauge when someone is bullsh!tting me or not.

It's not hard to do after enough occasions of it. And I can assure you, without wanting to sound as bigheaded as this will sound, I really don't look 53. To a degree enough that it's caused shock and not fake shock.

I'm not saying there aren't little things that are catching up on me -- I don't like my jawline now and it will be the first thing to start giving me away. But seriously, I don't have a line on my entire face. I have peachy skin, mid-long hair, a teenage voice and I'm short and relatively slim. I have good posture and I wear jeans and t-shirts. I look in my 30s. And so far I've received genuine disbelief and I can tell the occasional bull sh!tter from the real ones, thank you very much.

Why is there ALWAYS someone in a thread like this who comes here to tell everyone they're being lied to about how young they look?



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26 Jul 2015, 7:47 am

Your plumage is fresh and inviting !

I used to look really young--but now my grayness gives my age away.



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26 Jul 2015, 7:51 am

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Your plumage is fresh and inviting !

I used to look really young--but now my grayness gives my age away.


Ah, you still have a youthful face, kortie! :)

As you know, I do dye my grey hairs, but only because they're the only thing that doesn't fit the rest of me. When the rest of me looks old, I'll let the hair match. So far it's the one thing I don't mind fudging on for now.



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26 Jul 2015, 7:52 am

I always looked far younger than I was in my teens and twenties, perhaps largely due to the lack of life experience and giving off a general aura of naivety. I've probably aged quite a bit recently though due to stress and putting on weight.



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26 Jul 2015, 8:14 am

There was a young person on WP a couple months ago who did a study asking both autistic and non-autistic people to self-gauge how young they look and also report how often they get told that they look younger or older (if I'm remembering correctly). (S)he found that autistic people DO seem to look younger than non-autistic people.

There was also a study that was just published that found that the emotional expressions on autistic people's faces are harder to gauge than non-autistic people, for both autistic and non-autistic people. It's long been casually noted on WP that autistic people use less tiny facial muscles than non-autistics, thus giving a "natural botox."

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26 Jul 2015, 8:26 am

BirdInFlight wrote:
jk1, I wonder if you have some of my posts in mind? It's very close to things I've posted on similar threads.

I can assure you that while I can be naive and trusting, this is one thing I've had enough variation of reaction regarding, and from a wide variety of types of people, in various situations, some official and where nobody would be seeking to flatter me, that I can pretty much gauge when someone is bullsh!tting me or not.

It's not hard to do after enough occasions of it. And I can assure you, without wanting to sound as bigheaded as this will sound, I really don't look 53. To a degree enough that it's caused shock and not fake shock.

I'm not saying there aren't little things that are catching up on me -- I don't like my jawline now and it will be the first thing to start giving me away. But seriously, I don't have a line on my entire face. I have peachy skin, mid-long hair, a teenage voice and I'm short and relatively slim. I have good posture and I wear jeans and t-shirts. I look in my 30s. And so far I've received genuine disbelief and I can tell the occasional bull sh!tter from the real ones, thank you very much.

Why is there ALWAYS someone in a thread like this who comes here to tell everyone they're being lied to about how young they look?

Lucky that I caught this response to my post before going to bed. It's only ~9:30pm but I was just about to go to bed as I have to get up at 4:30am tomorrow morning. I wouldn't like my post to make you feel down.

Any way, I definitely wasn't referring to your post. I don't even know where that post is. And I do believe that some people do look younger than their age. That's why I carefully said "Some of the people..." in my previous post. I guess as I used a 50-y-o woman in my example, you felt I might have been referring to you. It's just a coincidence. I just picked the age 50 in my example because I keep seeing ads about 50+ women looking 20 ys younger etc, and a woman because I'm a male and I didn't want people to mistakenly think that I was talking about myself.

I said what I said in my previous post because I've seen so many insincere people who are extremely good actors. Not just about age, but also looks, abilities etc. They say very positive things to others and then behind their back they say the opposite. That kind of behavior is so common that I can't simply believe nice things people say. Maybe I've become too cynical.

In general I avoid denying, criticizing, dismissing etc. what other posters say on WP as I really don't want them to feel even mildly attacked. Not that there's anything wrong with other posters politely disagreeing with each other. It's just my choice.

I just wanted to clarify what I meant.



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26 Jul 2015, 8:48 am

People mistook me as the younger sibling instead of my NT sister, who is actually younger than me. Granted, she does act like one.
Sometimes people mistook me for an elementary student. :lol: That funny one time where my mom bought me to the market to buy a pair of shoes, my mom says I'm graduating. The seller assumed I'm graduating elementary.
Then whenever I'm inquiring (mortgages, check-ins, and the like) they kept asking me if I'm going to persuade my parents to buy it for me despite being past legal age already. Or when voting, they'll ask if I was looking for my parents that I should leave and wait for them. But I'm A voter!!

People think I'm 10-16, but I'm 20!! ! :lol:


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26 Jul 2015, 9:57 am

Hi, there may a bit of truth to it, but there could certainly be so many other factors, genetic, sun exposure, illnesses,
trauma, that affect our "age appearance".... my mother was NOT an aspie, but she was slim, fit, active right up to her
death at age 92. I am 70, slim, work out 6 days a week, no flab, but because I live in SoCal, I do have sun
damage on my arms. My face is not wrinkled at all. A man in his 40's was flirting with me, and I had to finally
say something about my age so that he would get lost. He was floored when I mentioned that I graduated from
college in 1968, ha ha. He could not get away fast enough! Also, my hair has not turned grey, tho I wish it
would.



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26 Jul 2015, 12:31 pm

people tell me that i don't age. i do. i have forehead wrinkles now that are always there. but compared to others my age, i look a lot younger. i have always looked young except for when i was very young because i was tall for my age. i started looking young for my age around 17.



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26 Jul 2015, 1:23 pm

nope, i age not physically nor mentally nor cognitively. in fact, all this is a ruse. i'm actually 6 months old in all aspects and soon i fh9chb fvhj u frhmfen kmeij98d2td ndw n 3209,mrd1,o3vi=5=t32v 0p oijgen jfejhjf fjfjfj itg piutg 98y jhn \


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[yes, yes i do. my profile lies, i'm 18. i might actually look older with my facial hair and glasses, never having been asked for ID in a casino an being asked what college i go to when in HS. "he looks 40"!

with the clean shaven face i might look 15 though.]


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26 Jul 2015, 1:34 pm

I've definitely aged, but apparently I look about 10 years younger than my actual age. At least that's what people keep telling me. Some of it could be schmooze, but sometimes there's been a ring of sincerity about it, and it's been frequent enough to make me think there's something in it. Though when I look in the mirror, I see an old man. It seems other people don't see what I see.



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26 Jul 2015, 6:42 pm

Same here.


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26 Jul 2015, 7:24 pm

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Everyone tell me that I look 10 years younger then I actually am. As a person. I feel 20 years younger. I find myself hanging around 20+ year old's.


Nothing wrong with that. I look much younger than 55. And for some reason, younger people even teens like to hang around me. If I didn't have so much awful things happen in college, I should have been a youth counselor.



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26 Jul 2015, 9:01 pm

People often say I look younger than my age...especially if I go to buy beer.


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26 Jul 2015, 11:35 pm

I'm 15(soon turning 16), and people keep thinking I am 17. I think the reason for this is because I am relatively tall(I am 5'11).



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27 Jul 2015, 2:19 pm

I'm 25, but people still believe I look 16-18.


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