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29 Oct 2015, 7:00 pm

1. certain words I switch pretty reliably with other words. I don't mean that every time I try to say "left" I will ALWAYS say "right", but it happens very often with those two words. Also I mix up sweatpants/snowpants with one another at least 50% of the time (I will know what I mean but the other word comes out), and also slippers/sandals. I cant think of any other word combos I do this with.

2. sometimes I go to say a word and I just can't think of it no matter how I try, or for another reason I can't quickly figure out what word to use, so I resort to describing the word. One notable instance was when I was typing to a friend in Australia and my brain got hung up analyzing the word "biscuit" when describing what I would be making for dinner, and the fact that it isn't' a flaky dinner roll type thing over there, but a dry cookie (I think?) and I ended up just typing "yeast form" because it was more easily all-emcompassing to describe a dinner side dish that is breadlike and you put butter on, than trying to figure out what to say. I've also asked if anyone has fed the "animals" yet because the word "cats" didn't come to me fast enough. I'm not sure anyone realizes the reason I do that, it probably just sounds quirky.

3. sometimes I go to say something and the entire sentence comes out jumbled with the words in the wrong order. This even happens when I'm talking to myself sometimes. I will go to say something like "well, I guess I have to get some more shampoo when I go to the store later" and what will come out will be "well, shampoo... gotta get to the store for some later", or "these boots won't work at all" will come out as "these don't shoes at all", etc.


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30 Oct 2015, 4:27 am

Mine is with problems getting the words correct when I speak. At times, I don't know what I said. The words can be completely unrelated.


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30 Oct 2015, 10:27 pm

It happens to me sometimes too. Just tonight I went to Subway and I asked for a 12 foot sub when I meant to say a 12 inch sub.



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31 Oct 2015, 12:16 am

slw1990 wrote:
It happens to me sometimes too. Just tonight I went to Subway and I asked for a 12 foot sub when I meant to say a 12 inch sub.

Bet that gets you funny looks just like when I ask for a straw when they hand me my blizzard


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31 Oct 2015, 4:46 am

I mix up words sometimes writing out posts.
And I mix up names too.
Like yesterday I asked my dad when his friend Curtis was coming over.
Dad: "Curtis? Do you mean Kevin?"
Me: "Yeah I mean Kevin".



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02 Nov 2015, 3:56 pm

I mentioned this in another recent thread, but for some reason I frequently say "vacuum" when I mean "mow". I suppose it's because in my mind the action performed is very similar (running a tool methodically over a surface). I know the difference, of course, but it comes pouring out of my mouth before I can think it through.



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02 Nov 2015, 7:48 pm

I skip words, or mix up/leave out prefixes and suffixes when I type.

I used to have issues with expressive language while speaking when I was a kid, but not so much anymore. Like, I'd sometimes have trouble retrieving words.

You want to google "expressive language disorder", too. :wink:


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02 Nov 2015, 9:42 pm

Wow, story of my life- forgetting words and not being able to say things.
My problem is I mix up languages
@-@ and then everyone think s I'm just trying to show off and humble bragging when I say: "oh, now what was that word in English- damn and it is my first language. XYZ language (whichever it happens to be) has just taken over my brain!"
I'm not trying to show how fluent I am or how much I think in a particular language I literally just can't recall >~<
I flip words- SO MUCH.
Like:
I store want to go.
Instead of "I want to go to the store"
Like I'll use the linguistic structure of a vastly different or completely opposite language (usually the one that the other person doesn't know) and then keep all the words from English usually (just because I mostly speak English to others on a daily basis).
And then it makes NO sense...
: /.
Sometimes I feel comfortable speaking one language instead of the one I should be using
UGH! It's so annoying- like brain just work te way u're supposed to!



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05 Nov 2015, 2:39 pm

Unfortunate_Aspie_ wrote:
Wow, story of my life- forgetting words and not being able to say things.
My problem is I mix up languages
@-@ and then everyone think s I'm just trying to show off and humble bragging when I say: "oh, now what was that word in English- damn and it is my first language. XYZ language (whichever it happens to be) has just taken over my brain!"
I'm not trying to show how fluent I am or how much I think in a particular language I literally just can't recall >~<
I flip words- SO MUCH.
Like:
I store want to go.
Instead of "I want to go to the store"
Like I'll use the linguistic structure of a vastly different or completely opposite language (usually the one that the other person doesn't know) and then keep all the words from English usually (just because I mostly speak English to others on a daily basis).
And then it makes NO sense...
: /.
Sometimes I feel comfortable speaking one language instead of the one I should be using
UGH! It's so annoying- like brain just work te way u're supposed to!


Show-off! Just kidding. ;-)

I took years of French (minored in college), and I would often use French words when taking notes in other classes when they came more readily to mind, or were shorter to write out. Like writing "sans" instead of "without," or d'après instead of "according to." It wasn't so much that I couldn't recall the English word, but that the French seemed more convenient at the time.



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07 Nov 2015, 8:43 pm

I do stuff like that a lot but I always thought it was due to my dyslexia getting words confused


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08 Nov 2015, 7:12 pm

untilwereturn wrote:
Unfortunate_Aspie_ wrote:
Wow, story of my life- forgetting words and not being able to say things.
My problem is I mix up languages
@-@ and then everyone think s I'm just trying to show off and humble bragging when I say: "oh, now what was that word in English- damn and it is my first language. XYZ language (whichever it happens to be) has just taken over my brain!"
I'm not trying to show how fluent I am or how much I think in a particular language I literally just can't recall >~<
I flip words- SO MUCH.
Like:
I store want to go.
Instead of "I want to go to the store"
Like I'll use the linguistic structure of a vastly different or completely opposite language (usually the one that the other person doesn't know) and then keep all the words from English usually (just because I mostly speak English to others on a daily basis).
And then it makes NO sense...
: /.
Sometimes I feel comfortable speaking one language instead of the one I should be using
UGH! It's so annoying- like brain just work te way u're supposed to!


Show-off! Just kidding. ;-)

I took years of French (minored in college), and I would often use French words when taking notes in other classes when they came more readily to mind, or were shorter to write out. Like writing "sans" instead of "without," or d'après instead of "according to." It wasn't so much that I couldn't recall the English word, but that the French seemed more convenient at the time.

Ah! I hope not! :lol:
I find that a lot of English speakers kind of without meaning to slip french or english-like words into sentences. I here a lot of people say: For example,
"I'll have my BLT sans the L alright?"
or " We can do that sans the addendum clause"
or: " Sans thinking he answered"
I think it is popular moreso amongst people that read older English fictional literature.
I really want to learn french! The most I know is just from when I worked for a canadian company and used to read the machine labels in french accidentally :D :mrgreen:
and be confused why the "English" seems so much weirder all of a sudden haha. :wink:



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20 Nov 2015, 1:37 pm

nuttyengineer wrote:
DaughterOfAule wrote:
I'll either switch words or forget a simple everyday word. It'll be on the tip of my tongue, but I'll resort to describing it until hours later I'll suddenly have an epiphany and remember it's called cat food...


This happened to me with my email password one day. I could not for the life of me remember it even though I had used it an hour earlier. It finally donned on me while I was driving a couple hours later. I really needed it, too.


This happens to me all the time as well! I've changed email passwords so many times only to remember what it was later and then forget the new password and around I go again... I think that is because I have a very visual memory and when typing passwords you only see dots.


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20 Nov 2015, 2:16 pm

Unfortunate_Aspie_ wrote:
I find that a lot of English speakers kind of without meaning to slip french or english-like words into sentences. I here a lot of people say: For example,
"I'll have my BLT sans the L alright?"
or " We can do that sans the addendum clause"
or: " Sans thinking he answered"
I think it is popular moreso amongst people that read older English fictional literature.
I really want to learn french! The most I know is just from when I worked for a canadian company and used to read the machine labels in french accidentally :D :mrgreen:
and be confused why the "English" seems so much weirder all of a sudden haha. :wink:

Sans Serif Buh dum bum Psssshhhhhh I'll be here all week...don't for get to tip the waiters before you leave!!

Seriously, I am completely typelexic. I cannot type without constant editing and spellchecking the errors. I know how to spell. It just doesn't get to my fingers right. I also find, upon re-reading the post, that I have actually left out words that I know were floating in my head.

When I speak, I too, lose a word in mid speech and just know the beginning sound. It gets bad enough that I also describe it. And, in much more fluid detail than the word would have provided.

I was recording something one time. My wife was helping me. What was startling was when I heard myself I was astonished at the tone of my voice as well as the lack of clarity in my instructions verbally. I thought I was being perfectly calm and clear. Not so, no, no.......


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20 Nov 2015, 2:47 pm

Regarding a second language, in my many attempts to learn Spanish through college I found that I either had to translate on the fly or replace the english word with the spanish one in my head if I wanted to avoid translating. And by that I mean I had to actually lose/forget/drop the english word from my language skills completely or it would block learning the spanish equivalent. Despite being able to hold disparate views simultaneously, even multiple ones, for a logical argument or exploration, I cannot do the same for language. At all...


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21 Nov 2015, 6:21 pm

I´m a bit relieved reading all this. I don´t think, I´m abnormal anymore :D


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21 Nov 2015, 6:27 pm

I mix up words all the time.


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