Cockroach96 wrote:
It's not that simple, you have to actually fit in.
Let's admit it: we ourselves alienate and harm NTs with our immature, childish and strange behavior. No wonder they hurt us back, we have it coming.
Um...I have to disagree to a certain extent. For instance, I think it's absolutely abhorrent when people I've never met want to come up and hug and kiss me when meeting. There are many other instances like that where I find it's very disturbing that the "norms" consider something so intrusive to be acceptable. They don't notice how uncomfortable I am. So, that's a bit of blindness on their part.
As for the "...immature, childish and strange behaviour" on our part...yep. Totally in agreement. When it comes to women I'm attracted to, I'm stuck at pulling the pigtails and dipping in the inkwell. The more I tease or harass, the more I like someone. I have no other way of expressing that. And, it's made plenty of people angry with me.
So, in that case, honesty, niceness and all is not solving that problem with my interactions.
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Diagnosed April 14, 2016
ASD Level 1 without intellectual impairments.
RAADS-R -- 213.3
FQ -- 18.7
EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
AQ: 42
AQ-10: 8.8