Why do someone people with autism talk loudly?

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03 Jan 2016, 12:40 pm

I have been told that I occasionally talk too loudly. When I do talk too loudly, it's not because I am looking for attention. Instead, I gauge my voice volume, by listening to what I am saying. If I myself cannot hear what I am saying, I will tend to talk louder. This is important (for me) as I have a difficult time stringing words together if I cannot hear what I am saying.



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03 Jan 2016, 12:59 pm

I usually talk too softly, but I'm not really aware of how softly I'm speaking. When I was little I think I had the opposite problem and spoke too loud.



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03 Jan 2016, 5:58 pm

My bf said I tend to talk loud. I did not know this. I think it's because I have hyper senses. I can hear what's going on around me so well that I have to "talk over" a lot of noises as I cannot hear myself through all the chaos..although that still kinda doesn't make sense I guess.

I also think that I am more prone to it when my feelings are strong. If I'm really mad or excited I must not realize what I'm doing because I can only focus on my feelings and I'm not how I'm talking.



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03 Jan 2016, 6:16 pm

I only talk quietly when I don't want anyone to hear what I'm saying. The rest of the time, I'm unaware of how loud I am, and it can be hard to keep myself quiet if I don't feel like I'm saying anything I don't want anyone to hear. And my voice only gets louder when I get stressed...



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05 Jan 2016, 12:50 am

i talk too loud, sometimes my enviroment is too loud so i cant hear if my voice is too loud but most of the time im not aware of my voice volume at all.


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05 Jan 2016, 3:19 am

Some have trouble with controlling volume and tone, in my ASD group there was one guy that sounded incredibly awkward like a preteen boy going through voice change and one girl who spoke pretty loud. I never knew I spoke very softly until someone pointed it out.



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05 Jan 2016, 7:40 am

I have been reprimanded many times for speaking too loudly (Last times was about a year and a half ago). I never realize it. I do have aural processing issues though.

But, for the life of me, I can't figure why anyone with Autism would do anything for attention. It would seem most that I have met here would just as soon NOT draw attention to themselves. We've had enough unwelcome attention in our lives. At least I know I have.


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05 Jan 2016, 8:14 am

It´s like putting an item on the table or closing a door. Either it happens with a slam or it happens too slowly and too over-careful.
I´m mostly asked to speak up - but now and then asked to shush down - especially when exited.....but that´s kind of normal, I should think.....being loud, when exited.


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05 Jan 2016, 8:32 am

I talk too softly, or in a mumble.

I've read that people (children) with autism do have problems with appropriate voice volume/modulation, talking too loudly.



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05 Jan 2016, 10:40 am

I have the reverse problem. People can barely hear me.


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06 Jan 2016, 12:14 pm

Fnord wrote:
Why do someone people with autism talk loudly? To be heard, of course! I had that problem as a kid, until my dad broke me of the habit by nearly breaking my jaw. Since then, most people ignore me if there are others to talk to.


That explains a lot.



As for the OP, I usually speak very softly with a tendency to mumble. I think it is because I never want to be the center of attention and I don't like big groups, so my conversation tone is confidential and one on one. However, I occasionally get excited by a topic of interest and become much more animated. People think I am agitated, when I am merely (finally!) interested in something.



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06 Jan 2016, 12:20 pm

I talk really loudly about whatever comes into my head when I'm in comfortable environments. Don't do it on purpose, I just get louder and louder without realizing. Done it all my life. But when I'm in an uncomfortable environment (around strangers, for one), I get really quiet and run out of things to say.



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06 Jan 2016, 10:37 pm

I have trouble controlling the volume of my voice. I speak at one volume, regardless if the room is quiet or if I am in a noisy place like a bar. Usually in ordinary quiet rooms I think I speak at an acceptable volume which others can hear me. In a library, I would be too loud, and in a bar or club, I simply would not be heard, so I avoid these places.



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07 Jan 2016, 2:16 am

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It's not for attention, anyway, I don't think it is. I think they really have no idea of how loud they are. Fnord said it was to be heard so perhaps others have the same reason he has. But I know that I speak way too softly and I have no idea how softly I am speaking unless people tell me which they do all the time. Internally to me it sounds like a normal volume so I can't tell how soft it is to others. I have read that this is an Autism thing, people speaking too loudly or too softly or too quickly. I used to speak too quickly as well and sometimes I still do but I have done a lot of work to slow down. But I think they really don't know how loud they are. My husband is naturally very loud and he never knows that he is being as loud as he is. I have to always ask him to speak softly and he always has to ask me to speak up. :D
There's devices for hearing impaired that emit background noise in the person's ear. The person adjust their speaking volume to compensate for the noise. The noise gets louder when the person is talking too low & the noise gets quieter when the person talks louder.


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07 Jan 2016, 7:49 am

In te past I'd been told I talk too loud and too excitedly without even realising it. It was definitely NOT for attention.



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07 Jan 2016, 8:30 am

Gaara wrote:
In te past I'd been told I talk too loud and too excitedly without even realising it. It was definitely NOT for attention.
Kinda reminded me of when I was a kid, everybody thought I did things for attention. All I wanted was to be ignored. Well, that and the intense desire to fit in.


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