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29 Jan 2016, 4:41 am

Not for a while, I haven't been in an environment where people and things irritate me to explosive levels. Basically I have no shutdowns or meltdowns if I'm not placed into a situation that can cause it.



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29 Jan 2016, 6:00 pm

Yeah. Very rarely actually.
I may be wrong, but i've never recalled in my life ever experiencing a meltdown at all. (although i do tend to shutdown sometimes when i get really alot of stress)
Most of the times i've ever been in a sensory filled situation (e.g: alone, in a huge crowd full of people, talking and moving), i'd usually feel rather unconformable, weird, or just really anxious.

Either that, or i would stim alot. (if that is the right term there)
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29 Jan 2016, 7:59 pm

The OP is similar to me


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29 Jan 2016, 8:48 pm

Unfortunately, my meltdowns are becoming more recurrent. It's when I'm in a situation that I can't shut down in. For instance in China. I had to keep going because I couldn't just isolate on a plane, airports, ferry and well, China.....
And, I push until I just collapse. It's like my body and mind have no regulator that says to slow down. And, my upbringing is "just deal with it, wuss." So, pushing through all of that, and something happened that tipped me over the edge, I lost it.

No meltdowns in class yet......

But, if in a situation where I can withdraw, I will shut down completely from people. At this time, I will only go out of my house if I absolutely have to. Work and doctor. That's it. And right now, work is only two hours a week. So, doing a bit of shutting down and just doing the special interests. And, there are things I want to do. I do not like being inside only. I just can't deal with people for now. Too much of everything. Fortunately, my special interests are all indoor activities.


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30 Jan 2016, 1:48 am

Last I time I had any meltdowns at all was around 7 years ago.
No amount of chaos could have me any sensory overloads. No known anxiety attacks (ever), only hesitation.


Though, I nearly had a meltdown few days ago out of frustration and actual lack of control on my own body no less. (Ever tried dealing with chicken pox without meds?)


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30 Jan 2016, 8:15 am

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Though, I nearly had a meltdown few days ago out of frustration and actual lack of control on my own body no less. (Ever tried dealing with chicken pox without meds?)
When I was a kid I had to. Not much o do with Chicken pox other than try to not scractch. I am worried about it resurfacing as the 'shingles' though. That can be really painful.


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30 Jan 2016, 8:47 pm

Don't recall ever having a "meltdown".

What are they like?



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30 Jan 2016, 8:52 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
Don't recall ever having a "meltdown".

What are they like?
I don't know how to describe it. I am sure it isn't the same person to person.


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30 Jan 2016, 8:58 pm

For me, I kind of lose control of myself and get so angry that I hit or pinch myself and scream out and cry.



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30 Jan 2016, 9:19 pm

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For me, I kind of lose control of myself and get so angry that I hit or pinch myself and scream out and cry.
That would be what you do. If I understand the question, it's what does it 'feel' like. I cannot describe any feeling.

But if it's what do you do, then there is the silent shutdown where I just close off completely and am barely responsive. The problem with that is it gives the impression that all is cool while I'm turning to goo and my brain is screaming. And then when it just won't stop, then this happens:

I can become very, very loud, flail my arms and hands and my language just goes out the window. It's not tourette's but for some reason, I can't access the vocabulary I do have and most of it is not suitable at all. At the end of it all, I will walk away from anything just to get away from it. I think if I was on a ship, I would walk off the plank voluntarily. All input at this point becomes negative and just starts to feedback.

I don't get violent. I don't attack people. I am just very loud and unpleasant. Added to the general scowly face, I've been told it comes across threatening. And, I guess if anybody is yelling, cussing you out and flailing in your general personal space (not at you though) I can see where it would be a bad thing.


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31 Jan 2016, 3:28 pm

zkydz wrote:
That would be what you do. If I understand the question, it's what does it 'feel' like. I cannot describe any feeling.

That's what it feels like. So angry that I can't keep control of myself and have to let it out.



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31 Jan 2016, 3:51 pm

I used to have meltdowns all the time as a kid, usually when I got scared or upset about something, but nowadays I hardly ever have them.

My last meltdown was a week before my 16th birthday (roughly a year ago) and that was a pretty severe one. But I've not had one since.


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05 Feb 2016, 3:52 pm

I had em ALOT as a kid & teen but I rarely get them nowadays sense I learned about myself & Aspergers, figured out how to treat a couple of my comorbids & moved out of my parents & in with my girlfriend.


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05 Feb 2016, 4:17 pm

Depends on what you would call a meltdown for me. I frequently cry a lot but largely due to PTSD, depression & stress. No I don't have the kind of meltdowns that involves what looks like tantrums.

I do fairly frequently have shutdowns.