Why is there so little info for adults with Asperger's?
I don't know if I could have done that without those things.
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RAADS-R -- 213.3
FQ -- 18.7
EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
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It is probably because autism has only been a common diagnosis since the late 1990s/early 2000s.
The children who were diagnosed then are just growing up now.
There will be more focus on adults as they become adults.
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I have tried to rectify this with my blog series...
http://www.savagelightstudios.com/warpedlens/?page_id=2
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The children who were diagnosed then are just growing up now.
There will be more focus on adults as they become adults.
I'm about to go to bed. My brain is fried today. So, if I read that in this thread....well, ooopsss....LOL
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Diagnosed April 14, 2016
ASD Level 1 without intellectual impairments.
RAADS-R -- 213.3
FQ -- 18.7
EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
AQ: 42
AQ-10: 8.8
One of the problems I see with public opinion and education only being directed toward children, is people just don't have an expectation of problems older autistic people may have.
It's no fun seeing someone completely losing it, especially if they happen to be very large and strong. In our area it seems police have not received proper training and many police, when encountering an older person, who they will later call violent, will often resort to deadly force. This is not an isolated incident and happens in all parts of the country.
Perhaps if the public were educated by the media these terrible incidents would be controlled.
This MUST happen.
It may be because kids are 'cute' and many NT's will see them as 'worth saving'
An autistic adult, who may be big, loud and often upset are just seen as a burden.
For many austistic adults I have met they have had a great deal of trauma and the trauma is now driving behaviour Which makes supporting them even harder. Internalised ableism is a good example of this. I've met many autistic people who won't accept help or support because they don't want to feel different because they still consider being different to be wrong and something negative.
This is part of why identity first acceptance stuff is important. If it's acceptable and understood to be autistic, those who are autistic can access the community more easily. I can access my local town centre because there is an autism hub I can go to when I struggle and know they will understand and help me.
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I'm a non verbal autistic adult living in the UK. I work for the BBC and I am in the middles of a transition to independent living.
I focus on being autistically happy and I write a website with techniques, reviews and guides. http://spacedoutandsmiling.com
There are also lots of autistic people who have never been diagnosed and never WILL be diagnosed because they've never considered that they might be on the spectrum. These people can act as "confederates" against other autistic people, without meaning to.
A confederate in social psychology is a person who appears to be on one side, but they are actually working for the enemy. Let's say Bob has a regular life, as to work, a wife, kids, but has what a lot of us would say are obvious aspie traits. He says and does awkward things, has narrow interests, has particular sensitivities unique to him and ways of doing things that he will not deviate from. Bob has kids with adult autism diagnoses and grandkids with childhood diagnoses. Bob repeatedly says very negative and hurtful things about what it means to be autistic. His kids and grandkids feel terrible about themselves just from hearing the way he speaks about autism. If he knew and accepted that he was also on the spectrum, maybe he would stop being so hurtful and start being more supportive of his family.
It can work the other way, too. People can have great lives and be great people, never consider they are autistic and never get diagnosed, even though they ARE autistic. Without being "out," people can't look up to them as positive role models.
http://www.savagelightstudios.com/warpedlens/?page_id=2
I looked at a lot of your essays on your blog, Feralucce, and I thought they were really excellent. Thank you very much!
A confederate in social psychology is a person who appears to be on one side, but they are actually working for the enemy. Let's say Bob has a regular life, as to work, a wife, kids, but has what a lot of us would say are obvious aspie traits. He says and does awkward things, has narrow interests, has particular sensitivities unique to him and ways of doing things that he will not deviate from. Bob has kids with adult autism diagnoses and grandkids with childhood diagnoses. Bob repeatedly says very negative and hurtful things about what it means to be autistic. His kids and grandkids feel terrible about themselves just from hearing the way he speaks about autism. If he knew and accepted that he was also on the spectrum, maybe he would stop being so hurtful and start being more supportive of his family.
It can work the other way, too. People can have great lives and be great people, never consider they are autistic and never get diagnosed, even though they ARE autistic. Without being "out," people can't look up to them as positive role models.
This made me nod lots. Acceptance is powerful!
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I'm a non verbal autistic adult living in the UK. I work for the BBC and I am in the middles of a transition to independent living.
I focus on being autistically happy and I write a website with techniques, reviews and guides. http://spacedoutandsmiling.com
Thank you... I do what I can to help
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The children who were diagnosed then are just growing up now.
There will be more focus on adults as they become adults.
I'm about to go to bed. My brain is fried today. So, if I read that in this thread....well, ooopsss....LOL
It depends a lot on how their parents raised them, what was their experience in school, their experiences with peers growing up.
If parents and school focused too much on disability and didn't build strengths or teach basic skills, the kids may have major problems as adults, once they age out of the school system.
Alternatively, if parents and school did the right things, the kids may better adapted than previous generations of kids growing up undiagnosed.
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Drain and plane and grain and blain your brain, and then again,
Propane and butane out of the gas main, your blain shall sustain!
The misdiagnoses that had me bandaiding the problem. The skills I did learn have been beneficial for many things. So, they did good on that. But, I am exactly where I was 35 years ago without the benefit of being 20. There are a lot of things that can be excused at 20 that cannot be excused at 30, 40 or worse at my age, 55. I'm just better prepared to be proactive when it gets bad.
So, I'm not a puddle of goo because of the good work those people did. That proves that education does work. They really taught me a lot. And, in its own way, it prepared me to take advantage of the things I have learned now. That previous education is getting out to good use at this crucial junction in my life. But, that was at 39 and two suicide attempts and feeling suicidal when I checked myself in. First attempt was at 19 in the Navy. so, 20 years of hell just to get to that point. And, education made a difference then.
It will make a difference now.
So, you are absolutely correct.
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Diagnosed April 14, 2016
ASD Level 1 without intellectual impairments.
RAADS-R -- 213.3
FQ -- 18.7
EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
AQ: 42
AQ-10: 8.8
http://www.savagelightstudios.com/warpedlens/?page_id=2
OK....
1.) Love the title..."Care and feeding of your Aspie"
2.) still reading all of it, but I like it. Thank you for putting that out there. Very well done.
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Diagnosed April 14, 2016
ASD Level 1 without intellectual impairments.
RAADS-R -- 213.3
FQ -- 18.7
EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
AQ: 42
AQ-10: 8.8
2.) still reading all of it, but I like it. Thank you for putting that out there. Very well done.
Thank you... we are working on the print edition and hope to have it out by mid summer
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Yeah. I'm done. Don't bother messaging and expecting a response - i've left WP permanently.
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Diagnosed April 14, 2016
ASD Level 1 without intellectual impairments.
RAADS-R -- 213.3
FQ -- 18.7
EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
AQ: 42
AQ-10: 8.8
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