What do you find weird about neurotypicals?

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As said above, their incredible tolerance for noise and lights. They can make themselves deaf and blind and they want more !

Their tolerance to small talk and intolerance to logical reasoning. They can talk about the most boring things and listen to that patiently, and you get accused of being like a robot when you go straight to the point with facts.

Their vague sentences and questions. like "How was... ?" What are you asking me ? Can you be more specific please ? Much more specific. That sounds so simple to you, that's impossible to answer. Unless if you don't mind me being off-topic. I can't read your mind, sorry.

People who play being your "friend" and who say horrible things about you behind your back. No better way to destroy trust and create more and more misanthropes.

Sugarcoating. "No, you're not like that, but..." Come on, be honest, I won't bite.

Lots of things. There's naught so queer as folk.

Being emotional slobs.

I'm not talking about feeling emotions, or even being overcome with emotions during important moments. I mean being overcome with emotion on a regular basis to the point where it dramatically impacts their ability to make sound decisions, and then moping about it in a way that brings everyone else down.

Saying "We missed you" when they've had every opportunity to keep in contact, and even failed to reply to the emails I've sent and the voicemails I've left.

They can be hard to talk to if they're family because of the two or more different wavelengths that are involved. Since nobody gets what the other party is trying to get through, nothing is ever accomplished and than connections between family members seem to disappear.

How they say autistic people are rude and blunt, yet it's mostly NTs being rude. When they ask me why I don't talk that much, why I do this, why I do that, why I dress the way I do, etc.

To me, they are the ones with no sense of personal boundaries. Also how they insist when you say no. No, I said I don't want to go out and no, I don't need to justify it. I'd never ask people intimate questions and I'd never insist when they say no.

The way so many [perhaps the vast majority of NTs) appear not to like to think about anything or any topic in any depth, often just taking on in a superficial way conventional ideas at face value, no capacity nor desire to question them nor to perform any kind of inner contemplation or inquiry.

Is it their choice or is it some kind of neurotypical deficit that is hardwired into most of them?

In second place for me would be their almost formulaic insincerities in social chit chat, and the apparently wide division between what many of them say and what they seem to be thinking. I dislike that lack of authenticity in anyone of any neurology at any time, though NTs are the specialists in it. Maybe it's a "developmental disorder" that the DSM hasn't got around to including yet, because they are so distracted by the notion that autism is a developmental disorder (which it isn't, the difference is an innate one).

Nothing, really.

I am often amazed when I overhear NT conversations and they talk about some rather small point for what seems to me an interminable amount of tme. They exchanged the salient point in the first minute of the conversation but just keep rehashing the same nugget of information. I don't understand how to have a conversation like that. It bores me terribly.

Wearing clothing that is uncomfortable.

Saying unkind things behind people's backs and then acting like you love them to their face.

When "Getting Along" means assimilation instead of harmony.
And not able to see differences when the majority is 'doing' it, whether they like it or not, with or without enough knowledge, it made it looked like "Getting Along" as mandatory than a choice.
Or a progress by faking and coping only to comment behind backs, as majority does it... It's a funny open secret.
And not "Getting Along" gets punished.


I'm close to find out how making NTs sync.
I prefer harmony between differences.

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