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Berabara
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13 Aug 2016, 3:31 am

well in world of warcraft that guy said that cheating makes him more powerful when he does someone but he doesnt make any sense but he has bad personality he scared of interaction on people thats what he said he swearing i dont like hearing swearing makes me more annoyed with bad AS so yeah cannot understand that person saying


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13 Aug 2016, 8:12 am

There are idiots all over the world. Just ignore them, and live your moral life.



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13 Aug 2016, 11:16 am

Berabara wrote:
well in world of warcraft that guy said that cheating makes him more powerful when he does someone but he doesnt make any sense but he has bad personality he scared of interaction on people thats what he said he swearing i dont like hearing swearing makes me more annoyed with bad AS so yeah cannot understand that person saying



Did he say he was aspie?


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13 Aug 2016, 2:50 pm

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I knew someone online who said he was an aspie, he cheated on his wife all because she wasn't able to have sex due to a medical condition. I told him why couldn't he just divorce her than cheat? He did get a gf during his marriage and then they broke up because his obsession and high need for sex was too much for her and eventually he and his wife got a divorce. I don't know if she ever found out though. But yeah this would be a red flag if I were dating and the guy was still married and his wife didn't know about him meeting other women from online.

Well. It is understandable. Perhaps he loved his wife and was absolutely fine with his marriage and sex was the only thing lacking so he found a fwb to use his urges on, without feelings. Sounds logical. It's like hiring an escort or masturbating.
However he should ask his wife if she is OK with it if that was the case.
And masturbating would be more ethical.

I am a woman so I can't phantom male urge for sex but I heard it is unbearable and painful if you hold back too long.



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13 Aug 2016, 3:04 pm

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I am a woman so I can't phantom male urge for sex but I heard it is unbearable and painful if you hold back too long.


No, it isn't. Trust me, I'm 36 and I'm still a virgin and it hasn't affected me that much. In fact, I don't think it's that different from a woman that has a high sex drive, the urges are the same in both genders. That's hardly an excuse to cheat on his wife.



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13 Aug 2016, 3:09 pm

Kiriae wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
I knew someone online who said he was an aspie, he cheated on his wife all because she wasn't able to have sex due to a medical condition. I told him why couldn't he just divorce her than cheat? He did get a gf during his marriage and then they broke up because his obsession and high need for sex was too much for her and eventually he and his wife got a divorce. I don't know if she ever found out though. But yeah this would be a red flag if I were dating and the guy was still married and his wife didn't know about him meeting other women from online.

Well. It is understandable. Perhaps he loved his wife and was absolutely fine with his marriage and sex was the only thing lacking so he found a fwb to use his urges on, without feelings. Sounds logical. It's like hiring an escort or masturbating.
However he should ask his wife if she is OK with it if that was the case.
And masturbating would be more ethical.

I am a woman so I can't phantom male urge for sex but I heard it is unbearable and painful if you hold back too long.




I still don't think there is any excuse for cheating and you just showed everyone about what the OP was saying about aspies thinking cheating is okay.

You can love someone but sometimes a divorce still happens if there is a problem and it can't be fixed. The only choices are go poly or divorce if the partner refuses to do a poly.


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13 Aug 2016, 11:20 pm

I have never cheated.


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13 Aug 2016, 11:37 pm

I sort of did. Here is what happened. I wanted to break up with my ex boyfriend but I was afraid too because I was worried what would happen. Another thing was he was so hard to reach and he never answered my IMs or answered his phone and he mostly ignored me. I did want to move on with my life but couldn't because I was trapped in a relationship. I couldn't break up with him on the phone and my dad told me I shouldn't do it online either. I thought about driving to his work in the middle of the night when he was working and break up with him in front of everyone but I felt that would have been bad ass of me. There I was so concerned about his feelings and I was trying to do it the appropriate way but he was making it so hard for me. So I started to meet other guys from online and just doing stuff. They all knew I was still with him because I told them and I would talk about him with them and they all thought he was a jerk. He was a jerk, he was emotionally abusive.

But then my mom told me he had moved on so he was ignoring me and I was single again. I felt so relieved because it meant I could move on for real. So did I cheat on him or not?

I even decided next time I am dating someone and if they start to ignore me and go silent on me like my ex did, I will assume I am single and move on. I will never let a guy treat me like this again.

I have been with my husband and I have never cheated on him. While cheating is a subjective word because everyone has their own definition of it, it's a good idea to discuss with your partner what they consider cheating and to check with them before you do anything with someone that is considered sexual by the general. You wouldn't want to unintentionally cheat on your partner.


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14 Aug 2016, 4:02 pm

League_Girl wrote:
Berabara wrote:
well in world of warcraft that guy said that cheating makes him more powerful when he does someone but he doesnt make any sense but he has bad personality he scared of interaction on people thats what he said he swearing i dont like hearing swearing makes me more annoyed with bad AS so yeah cannot understand that person saying



Did he say he was aspie?


well yeah he says assburgers i dont like that word but i dont believe him tho he just be idiot say bad stuff at me hes 20 year old he said thats all but i didnt understand him at all because hes being sarcasm


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