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06 Oct 2016, 7:04 pm

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I don't recommend meeting WP members.


Hmmmm, maybe I should stop being a WP member ...
because by doing so, apparently my social cred
will immediately and vastly skyrocket ... :P



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06 Oct 2016, 7:05 pm

racheypie666 wrote:
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I don't recommend meeting WP members.


Not disagreeing but why not? I don't think I could anyway, nobody's near me on here as far as I can see.


Well you have person A who doesn't communicate well meeting person B... who doesn't communicate well.

What do you think is going to happen?

It did not meet my expectation nor do I feel it met the exception of the person I met with.

For me it led to what possibly could have been disappointment on both sides.



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06 Oct 2016, 7:11 pm

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Thanks :D . I'm trying to get my act together and finish my online portfolio, I'll get there eventually lol :roll: . I never used to be shy about sharing my work, it's only in the past few years or so, so I know I can get over it :) !


You don't even need an online portfolio to start showing your artwork. I started selling from a rickety card table set up outside at a local tourist resort. All's you need to do to enter a juried exhibit is to fill out a form, submit it by the due date, and hope the judge likes you ... hey, it's like buying a lottery ticket, right? You can't win if you don't play. And to get into an art gallery consignment shop or gift shop, you walk in and show the lady (or man) up at the counter your artwork ... yes, I know "that's breaking the rules" ... but it's worked for me.

I wish you the best and believe you can do it!



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06 Oct 2016, 7:16 pm

dcj123 wrote:
racheypie666 wrote:
dcj123 wrote:
I don't recommend meeting WP members.


Not disagreeing but why not? I don't think I could anyway, nobody's near me on here as far as I can see.


Well you have person A who doesn't communicate well meeting person B... who doesn't communicate well.

What do you think is going to happen?

It did not meet my expectation nor do I feel it met the exception of the person I met with.

For me it led to what possibly could have been disappointment on both sides.


That's fair :) . I'm much better at communicating on here than I am elsewhere. Or to be more accurate, I'm much better at communicating the honest version of myself on WP. I don't know if I could drop the mask to the same extent in person :| .



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06 Oct 2016, 7:20 pm

dcj123 wrote:
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dcj123 wrote:
I don't recommend meeting WP members.


Not disagreeing but why not? I don't think I could anyway, nobody's near me on here as far as I can see.


Well you have person A who doesn't communicate well meeting person B... who doesn't communicate well.

What do you think is going to happen?

It did not meet my expectation nor do I feel it met the exception of the person I met with.

For me it led to what possibly could have been disappointment on both sides.


I would say, your mileage may vary.
And yes, there will be disappointment along the way.
I've met various people from the Internet.
Some have been letdowns ... we've long since parted and went our separate ways.

One or two seemed too creepy or narcissistic to meet, so I deleted them from my social media
and never met them in person.

That said, one Internet friend went on to become my best friend in real life ...
eventually I lost her to heart disease ...
but I am so thankful I had the opportunity to have her as a friend.

There's one bunch whom I've recently met in person who are from the Internet ...
they want me to drive a long ways and go meet them again ...
I'm deciding whether or not that's a good idea.

I would say, life is filled with risks.

The main thing is,
make sure that whoever you meet,
that you meet them safely in a public place.



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06 Oct 2016, 7:36 pm

dcj123 wrote:
I don't recommend meeting WP members.



Personally i dont see why not! Yes it might be a bit nervous from both sides then again the both of you might hit it off straight away due to mutual understandings. I know a number of people here have met in real life and also have got married. Yes it would likely be nerve racking to a point on the lead up but to give myself the negative view in that way all the time isnt going to be good for my health or overall outlook. It can be hard to push yourself through that wall sometimes but then sometimes by pushing yourself you experience things you wouldnt have imagined because you did put yourself outthere!
Never say never :)



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06 Oct 2016, 7:42 pm

I wouldn't mind it if you invited me to your place, Uncle. LOL

I know I would enjoy the Kiwi scenery.



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06 Oct 2016, 7:43 pm

Get yourself a dog Rachel, not only are they great companions and therapeutic it a great indirect way of meeting people, especially on the beach when walking. Its a subtle way of meeting people for short interchanges, so rather an ideal way to meet people and benefit from the awesomeness of experiancing both worlds ;)



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06 Oct 2016, 7:44 pm

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I wouldn't mind it if you invited me to your place, Uncle. LOL

I know I would enjoy the Kiwi scenery.



Kraftie, that goes without question!! if ever here your more than welcome!! :) anyone else for that matter :)



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06 Oct 2016, 7:52 pm

Uncle wrote:
Get yourself a dog Rachel, not only are they great companions and therapeutic it a great indirect way of meeting people, especially on the beach when walking. Its a subtle way of meeting people for short interchanges, so rather an ideal way to meet people and benefit from the awesomeness of experiancing both worlds ;)


Aw, I would love a dog. One like Snowy from Tintin, and we could go on adventures together :heart: .



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06 Oct 2016, 7:55 pm

Why not? ask the folks and see what they say, no harm in asking ;)

Im keeping my eyes out for one, Either an Alaskan Malamute again or maybe a beagle :)



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06 Oct 2016, 8:02 pm

[color=#00b2ff] I think most autistics that would qualify avoid it [\color]


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06 Oct 2016, 8:16 pm

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[color=#00b2ff] I think most autistics that would qualify avoid it [\color]


See I thought the opposite. The high functioning autistic stereotype and the mensan stereotype have a lot of common ground. The social bit's the main difference, but I bet some people join and opt out of that part.

And of course I know people aren't stereotypes so there's going to be variance, but still :lol:



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06 Oct 2016, 8:26 pm

I wouldn't qualify for Mensa, based upon my IQ LOL



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08 Dec 2016, 9:40 pm

I wasn't necessarily that interested in mensa. I've applied to the triple nine society though. I'm wondering how that will go. I have a lot of trouble relating to people and making friends. Maybe I'll fit in there.



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09 Dec 2016, 11:58 am

dcj123 wrote:
I don't recommend meeting WP members.

Dcj wanna be steam friends?


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