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Berabara
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10 Oct 2016, 10:36 pm

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

You think i dont have aspergers it means im stupid everyone hates me i will going ignore you

I don't think it's possible to tell by reading posts if any member here has Aspergers, you only have their word.
By reading your posts I cant find any reason why you would lie. I believe what you say.
You don't seem stupid either. If you were to start a poll and ask members if they hated you , I bet you would find that the vast majority of members don't hate you and if any member said they did it would be a lie ( there's a**holes in all walks of life ).

Mum wasnt happy that i hurt my self but she ask me go do mow the lawn and i said no and then she said shes going turn internet off but i didnt care about internet turn off after that i got confused all in my brain feels like storm fire and i dont know what to say but feels like im stupid

What you describe does not sound like stupidity to me. Confusion and not knowing what to say does not indicate stupidity. You sound like you have a lot of problems but being stupid is not one of them. You have to try and stop thinking this , its not true.

Yeah do u think i had meltdown other day what i said?

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10 Oct 2016, 10:36 pm

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SBO_ReachOut2Me wrote:

No I don't & I like your mind. Your mind is good; not stupid. Stupid would be bad if it were existent.

Well yesterday i had bad day i kicked the brick hurt my self and i hit doors while crying and very angry swearing my self alone mum wasnt home so she thinks.im stupid that i kick the brick i told her thanks for telling me stupid

Maybe she was just bothered that you hurt yourself. And maybe she meant she thinks you did something stupid instead of that you are stupid. There is a difference.

Shes upset and she rang alec check me out see if im ok but im ok now but i didnt want to do that again so are you saying im stupid if u think im going ignore you i feel bad i dont understand what ur saying he put bandages on my finger apparently im stupid because u said that

I have meltdowns all the time and hurt myself and break things sometimes. And I feel bad afterwards.

Sometimes when I hurt myself or break something, someone might say "that was a stupid thing to do". That is not the right thing to say to someone, but people say wrong things sometimes.

I was just trying to explain why I think your mom said that.

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10 Oct 2016, 10:54 pm

EzraS wrote:

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EzraS wrote:

Berabara wrote:

SBO_ReachOut2Me wrote:

No I don't & I like your mind. Your mind is good; not stupid. Stupid would be bad if it were existent.

Maybe she was just bothered that you hurt yourself. And maybe she meant she thinks you did something stupid instead of that you are stupid. There is a difference.

Yeah meltdowns are not fun but mum said u lost ur temper what is that means?

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10 Oct 2016, 11:01 pm

I don't think you're stupid at all. I think you're a very bright person.

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10 Oct 2016, 11:27 pm

When i was about 20 i got really upset by something and on my walk home at night i punched one of those tall street lights as i was walking by, i hit it so hard i blew the bulb ( these things are solid metal and 50ft tall) Yes i hurt my hand, was a little relief from the inner anxiety/stress i was feeling but felt bad for blowing the light. So metaphorically speaking i was stupid to hit the light but literally speaking i dont think i am stupid. So in your case i dont believe it was a literal suggested comment as opposed to a more metaphoric term.

And no you are not stupid!

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11 Oct 2016, 12:15 am

Uncle wrote:

And no you are not stupid!

is that meltdown what i said before

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11 Oct 2016, 12:24 am

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is that meltdown what i said before

Umm, im not sure what you specifically mean by that, could you elaborate?

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11 Oct 2016, 4:48 am

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I don't think you're stupid at all. I think you're a very bright person.

When i got really upset and crying hitting on doors hurt my fingers 3 fingers bruised and nail blood came out bit damaged nail. and threw the patrol tainer and i kicked the brick hurt my feet i couldnt think anything but just hitting but my mind feels like storm by stress anxiety i make extreme facial expressions with angry but i didnt scream at all i quiet talking my self and confused but i put finger up at my sisters and mum asking me mow the lawn and she turn internet off but still dont care about internet that day i had bad day so is that she left but i shes upset and my sister finger up at me i got worst in frustration i said 4 times i hate you in tears people next door can hear me crying swearing and hitting door that i start thinking about picture about door slamming with break glass door but didnt want to so thats meltdown or?

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11 Oct 2016, 4:55 am

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

You think i dont have aspergers it means im stupid everyone hates me i will going ignore you

I apologise to my mum for hurting my fingers and foot and my sister door she wasnt home while i hitting her door really hard thats why i hurt my fingers one nail is bit damaged by blood inside nail that would hurt one 3rd nail got swallowed thats worst when i touch thing it hurts while calm and i kick the brick i dont like that feeling in my brain by the way i dont want do that again

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11 Oct 2016, 4:57 am

A meltdown or a tantrum?

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11 Oct 2016, 5:01 am

EzraS wrote:

A meltdown or a tantrum?

Meltdown i think but i didnt scream but really angry and crying hitting kicking throwing things by stress she ask me mow the lawn and she turn internet off but i didnt care

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11 Oct 2016, 5:03 am

EzraS wrote:

A meltdown or a tantrum?

And swearing finger up at them and my self

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11 Oct 2016, 5:16 am

Well you had a meltdown. Got overloaded and lost control. Mowing the lawn is probably a good stress reliever if it's a push mower. But I'm usually really worn out after a meltdown.

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11 Oct 2016, 5:27 am

EzraS wrote:

Well you had a meltdown. Got overloaded and lost control. Mowing the lawn is probably a good stress reliever if it's a push mower. But I'm usually really worn out after a meltdown.

Usally last 20mins or more i ask for help for injures i tried contacting my mum and my aunty

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11 Oct 2016, 6:21 am

Berabara wrote:

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

You think i dont have aspergers it means im stupid everyone hates me i will going ignore you

Yeah do u think i had meltdown other day what i said?

Sorry but I do not know enough about autism to say if you had a meltdown or not. What I do know is you need to find a way to get rid of your anger safely or you might end up really hurting yourself.

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11 Oct 2016, 6:27 am

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

SaveFerris wrote:

Berabara wrote:

You think i dont have aspergers it means im stupid everyone hates me i will going ignore you

Yeah do u think i had meltdown other day what i said?

Sorry but I do not know enough about autism to say if you had a meltdown or not. What I do know is you need to find a way to get rid of your anger safely or you might end up really hurting yourself.

Unfortunately self control is not an option with a violent meltdown. I have to be psychically restrained.

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