friedmacguffins wrote:
I find that I am sometimes locking eyes, or over enunciating, and it comes across as being terse.
I am making myself do the normal things. It is forced.
Even when I have a goofy, facial expression, I am still on the tall side, so intimidate people.
I'm exactly like that, I've always had to force those things and pretend. Normally I have a monotone voice but I'm trying to learn how to be more lively when talking and use my hands more. I have to study other people to come off as normal like you say. "Freddie Mercury - The Great Pretender" Is my theme song haha.
eggheadjr wrote:
I much prefer darker or shaded areas for the most part. At work, the four fluorescent ceiling fixtures above my corner area and nearby are turned off. I have a small desk lamp (with a high and low setting) for when I need to do fine reading work.
Yep, I work best that way too.