Does anyone feel better in a dark lit place?

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30 Dec 2016, 2:42 pm

I much prefer darker or shaded areas for the most part. At work, the four fluorescent ceiling fixtures above my corner area and nearby are turned off. I have a small desk lamp (with a high and low setting) for when I need to do fine reading work.


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30 Dec 2016, 2:57 pm

friedmacguffins wrote:
I find that I am sometimes locking eyes, or over enunciating, and it comes across as being terse.

I am making myself do the normal things. It is forced.

Even when I have a goofy, facial expression, I am still on the tall side, so intimidate people.


I'm exactly like that, I've always had to force those things and pretend. Normally I have a monotone voice but I'm trying to learn how to be more lively when talking and use my hands more. I have to study other people to come off as normal like you say. "Freddie Mercury - The Great Pretender" Is my theme song haha.

eggheadjr wrote:
I much prefer darker or shaded areas for the most part. At work, the four fluorescent ceiling fixtures above my corner area and nearby are turned off. I have a small desk lamp (with a high and low setting) for when I need to do fine reading work.


Yep, I work best that way too.



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30 Dec 2016, 3:27 pm

Yes, I prefer dimly lit spaces. I sit in the almost dark at home, lit by fairylights and/or candles. Bright lights drain me.



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30 Dec 2016, 4:39 pm

Bright lights really hurt my eyes. I tend to not turn light switches on and just turn on a table lamp or two in my bedroom.


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31 Dec 2016, 1:07 am

Yep I spend most of my time sitting in the dark, exploring tunnels or neglected buildings, under crowded canopies of trees, in the corner of the library, behind sunglasses and curtains. I am like a lizard who is dark-blooded and recharges when assaulted by light and noise in the sane shadows :wink:



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31 Dec 2016, 5:10 am

It is quite normal for Aspies to be uncomfortable in bright-lit places, but I happen to not have that trait. I'm actually the opposite, I can't bear dim light. I can feel my pupils expanding and it's so uncomfortable. I just get panicky in dim light. I rather well-lit restaurants, sun-lit places, and the bright lights in restaurants. I can focus much better in bright light.


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31 Dec 2016, 8:33 am

Hello Darkness, my old friend...


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31 Dec 2016, 9:44 am

My room is lit by a single 25 watt bulb. My window has blackout curtains. I wear shades in any indoor place with too much light.



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31 Dec 2016, 9:52 am

At home, it's a constant battle between my dad and me. He thinks that too little light will ruin my eyes and turns my room really bright. It hurts my eyes, so I turn some lights off, and he yells at me. He thinks I'm being rebellious and doesn't believe that it's too bright for me.

My dad has questioned a few times if he could be an Aspie. If he is, then I can see the lack of theory of mind.


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31 Dec 2016, 10:39 am

I find the darkness comfortable in my own home, but dark parking structures are scary.

I have recently been getting headaches from reading on the computer and I won't use Kindles or similar devices, because the bright lights stab my eyes.



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31 Dec 2016, 11:43 am

Yes. My daughter and I are more likely to get overloaded in places like bright restaurants or grocery stores. I took her to Rainforest Cafe a few months ago and we had the best time. It's a dimly lit space, but it also has great ambient noise.



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31 Dec 2016, 11:54 am

The only places I've ever felt truly at peace are in empty, unlit auditoriums and theaters. The vastness of the space, the lack of noise, the darkness w/o any accompanying feeling of claustrophobia - it's a wonderful expeience, and one I don't get very often, for obvious reasons lmao


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31 Dec 2016, 12:56 pm

Imagine how I feel living in this scorched desert, it's like being on the surface of the sun! I have to wear sunglasses when I am out and about, I am not a fan of bright overhead lights in general. Big fan of shaded lamps. :P



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31 Dec 2016, 1:04 pm

Last time I had a shutdown, it seems to be the case.


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31 Dec 2016, 5:28 pm

It can be hard to tell when my kids and I are home as we all like the lights dim. I wear sunglasses and a brimmed hat whenever I go into a store. I find that most of them are to bright.


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01 Jan 2017, 2:41 am

I feel better in lower lighting but that's because I have a rare low vision disorder that causes me to be sensitive to bright light along with some colorblindness & being extremely nearsighted even with glasses.


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