How do you feel about the term "Aspie"?

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24 Feb 2017, 8:59 am

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I actually prefer the term "aspie." It does have a bit of a cutesy sound to it, which may be why I prefer it more. Hehe :oops:
But that's just me.

And why not?
It makes the diagnosis into a term of endearment. :)



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24 Feb 2017, 9:00 am

It's lots better than Assburgers LOL



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24 Feb 2017, 9:10 am

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It's lots better than Assburgers LOL


I think 'South Park' is the reason why that term is so common among knuckledraggers


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24 Feb 2017, 9:56 am

I also think it's a bit too cutesy. "Autie" and "autist" used to describe those with more severe classic autism are even worse. Just call it by it's regular name, "Asperger syndrome."



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24 Feb 2017, 9:58 am

I like "Aspergian" myself. Sounds sort of Romanesque.



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24 Feb 2017, 10:08 am

Yes, I know that "Romanesque" is the name of a medieval architectural style, rather than a description of Romans---but I like how it slides off my tongue.....



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24 Feb 2017, 10:10 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Yes, I know that "Romanesque" is the name of a medieval architectural style, rather than a description of Romans---but I like how it slides off my tongue.....


I think it sounds more like a competitor at an Olympiad


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24 Feb 2017, 10:15 am

Especially in the Classic Period and for a few hundred years afterwards, I found the Greek Olympics to be quite the spectacle.

Then it became decadent around the time of the decadence of Rome.



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24 Feb 2017, 10:27 am

I'm neutral towards the term as I also find it too "cutesy", so I very much prefer being called either "autistic" (even though I was and still virulently opposed to the DSM V folding Asperger syndrome under the broad ASD classification), "high functioning autistic", "someone with Asperger's syndrome", "autist" (autist no longer seems to be interchangeable with the classically autistic when used on online discussion forums) and sporadically by myself - "Aspergian" & "Aspergernaut". Non-autistic neurodivergents (dyslexics, hyperlexians, synesthetes, hyperthymestics, prodigies, NLDers etc) are known as allistics.

It's a lot better than the term "sperg" (although I don't care nor am I offended if derided as one) though which is an Asperger's syndrome derogative predominantly used by autistophobes and aspiephobes.


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24 Feb 2017, 10:31 am

TheRedPedant93 wrote:

It's a lot better than the term "sperg" (although I don't care nor am I offended if derided as one) though which is an Asperger's syndrome derogative predominantly used by autistophobes and aspiephobes.


How do you pronounce 'sperg' ? what sound does the g make ?


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24 Feb 2017, 10:38 am

I find soft "g" to be easier off my tongue than hard "g" when I pronounce the word "Aspergian" orally.

As for "Aspergers," it's definitely a hard "g".

Since it is a German name, I believe it should really be pronounced something like "As-p/bair-gers." The distinction between "p" (voiceless" and "b" (voiced) is less than usual.



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24 Feb 2017, 10:54 am

"Sperg" is pronounced as a hard "g", while "As-p/bair-gers" is probably the most pertinent pronunciation for Asperger's, although I frequently express it as "Ah-sperger's" (hard "g").


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24 Feb 2017, 11:16 am

I dislike it. I find the term rather stupid and pointless.


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24 Feb 2017, 12:01 pm

At one time it really was a positive empowering thing for a lot of people but now it is now for the most part a neutral descriptor. And often it is not an accurate descriptor as Aspie (and Aspergers for which it was named for) has morphed into socially awkward, highly intelligent person. The people that trashed the term have partially gotten what they wanted and that is too bad. A major opportunity was lost.

I guess I have to be content the opponents did not totally get what they wanted the term survived and is still in widespread use. At least saying the most negative things about people who describe themselves as Aspies is not a widespread acceptable prejudice on Wrong Planet as it was in 2014.

As for me, I identify with both Aspie and Autistic. I personally find that Autist and Aspergian sound elitist.


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24 Feb 2017, 12:05 pm

PatrickJane wrote:
I dislike it. I find the term rather stupid and pointless.


Stupid and pointless as compared to what other term?



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24 Feb 2017, 12:10 pm

IstominFan wrote:
I also think it's a bit too cutesy. "Autie" and "autist" used to describe those with more severe classic autism are even worse. Just call it by it's regular name, "Asperger syndrome."


Irrelevant.

We are not talking about what to call the condition.

We are talking about what to call the people who have the condition.



So...

What would you call "a person with aspergers"? Would you utter the whole seven syllables of "a person with aspergers"? Or use something more clipped?