Biggest Pet Peeve

Post Reply New Topic

In no particular order I hate; snoring, loud or sloppy chewing, burping, and other unpleasant noises. Also dislike being poked or jabbed, my partner throwing themselves at me for a hug or other physical contact, people resting their head on my shoulder (so uncomfortable!), being nagged, obnoxious people on trains, people who block the path, arrogant people (especially when they have a posh accent )

________________________________________________________________________________

when precious little "people" act like every thought and emotion that goes through their brain, must come out their mouth within 10 seconds, lest the sky fall down. and then when i make the mistake of flapping my stupid trap, they interrupt, and say "what"? else, they half listen and say "huh?", instead of "excuse me".

when precious little "people" accuse me of "lying". and then when it turns out i was right (or, @ least, they were wrong), they do not even bother with a flimsy little "i'm sorry, sir".

when precious little "people" make comments about what i look and sound like. "talking slowly", "you were talking too loud at trader joe's," "you look like a boy,".

when precious little "people" use "girl" as the analogue of not just "boy", but "guy" and "man." ok, it is "girl/boy", "man/woman", female/male, ladies/gentlemen. sounds sexist to say "girls and guys", or (some idiots say) "are you a man or a girl?". but, of course, they act like they are so innocent. boys become "guys" before puberty. girls become stay "girls" even when senile. on the other hand, not just cisgender boys use that wrongful terminology. women use that terminology too.

personal questions about my sex. ("are you a boy or a girl?")

big egoed bozos yelling at me.

idiots pointing out every slightest thing i do or say that is not factually correct, even when it makes no functional difference. (ie. "BS instead of BA").

off leash dogs ("she's so cute!", "she won't bite!")

precious little "people" refer to themselves as "we", "people" or "most people". makes it sound like i am not a person, b/c i do not fit their description of "people".

morons that have the nerve to bother me with a question that serves no practical function. then when i answer they grunt "what?".

when they think i am wrong, they act like i invented the world's worst felony, but when it turns out they were wrong, they just grunt "ok". along that line of reasoning, what prevents them from accusing me of something illegal?



when they gossip with eachother about me.

when they make fun of me, just b/c i am different from them.

making comments about my physical appearance

i used to scream when people touched me or start yelling because i hated it. I do no longer hate it but i don't like it either.

I yell when someone touches or pokes me again when I tell them to stop. I don't like it. I just get so ticked off when they do it too me.

People laughing at themselves after they've said something that was not funny and was not even intended to be funny. For example: "It sure is raining hard. HAHAHA." And "We have another meeting today. HAHAHA."
I don't know what that means, and it's terribly annoying.

Smell is my biggest sensory issue. I hate body odor, cigarette smoke and excessive perfume/cologne. I also hate the smell of those laundry dryer pads.

My biggest pet peeve is people eating with their arms and/or elbows on the table. I cannot imagine anything worse.

All doors inside the house must be closed. I close all my sisters doors in her appartment when i visit and can get quite upset if someone leaves my bedroom/bathroom door open. know why just. I mean- havent you people ever heard of closing a god damn door?

This may be due to my Toastmasters training, but I can't stand when people use multiple "filler" words (um, uh, so) in their speeches. Politicians are the worst.

I'm not particularly fond of being poked (I especially hate to have my ribs poked), or being touched without good reason. But it's not usually a big issue now that I'm an adult. (School was a different story.)

I do share with others a hatred of being exposed to cigarette smoke in public places. If you want to smoke in your house or car, or anywhere else that doesn't interfere with other people's right to breathe freely, I really don't care. But I'm becoming more sensitive to situations where smoke does impact me. One example is when you're sitting in a vehicle in standing traffic, and somebody nearby is blowing smoke and/or holding their cigarette out their window. Shouldn't the fact that you don't want a toxic substance confined to your small space tell you something about how other people feel about it?

The same goes for people who stand right outside a restaurant or other business to smoke, and you have no option but to walk through their poison fumes to get where you're going. Yuck!

Bathroom hand dryers sometimes make me uptight. Anxious. Hurts my ears

Homophobic comments

Failing to sleep

Not having enough cash

Social rejection

Failure

No matter how much energy I wasted, still failed

Precious lil "people" say "huh" and "what" instead of "excuse me"

I don't like being touched, generally speaking. I used to punch people for unexpected touch. ESPECIALLY DON'T TOUCH MY HEAD!

I do like hugs. But only ones I initiate. Especially strong hugs or the kind of hugs were people rock back and forth with you.

I like your nickname.

Yeah, I used to do the same when I was younger, when people would get too close to my face. That was mostly because it would make me feel nervous and fear the worst, so I would punch them in a panic. Turns out they were just trying to be friendly. My bad.

I hate being touched, too .

However, my biggest pet peeve would definitely have to be the sound and feel of skin rubbing across skin. You could probably see how this creates problems, especially in regards to washing my hands. The good thing is I can rub my hands together if there is soap in between them. It feels and sounds SO horrible to me. It physically hurts, probably more than getting a shot! But boy, do I hate that sound!

________________

Very rarely do I want someone to touch me that does not touch me

Oftentimes someone touches me and I do not like it

Tickling is torture. I can't imagine anyone who would think that is a pleasant thing.