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11 Mar 2017, 7:33 am

Hmm...I value what I am able to do on my own. I do get discouraged with a possible learning disability/lacking skills.

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11 Mar 2017, 9:26 am

Taken care of; no. Sometimes helped/reminded with schedules, taxes, insurance, bills; yes. I don't know how anyone can manage all that information alone while working full-time without crashing. I'd much rather accept help than miss something and have someone else P.O.'ed at me.

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11 Mar 2017, 9:27 am

No. :twisted: Unless you're my mom, I don't want anyone to help me and deal with things.

But truly, I want self sufficiency. That, and without anyone worrying about me or anything.

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11 Mar 2017, 12:37 pm

I like being independent because I don't want to feel like a burden and I feel like I get more freedom that way. I think it took me a little longer to get that way though because I haven't trusted myself to do certain things and would want advice and help from others.

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12 Mar 2017, 3:46 am

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Plus I cannot endure working for a living for a very long time and it's ostensibly impossible for me to form and maintain relationships as an adult, so it's difficult for me not to depend on my parents

Agreed. My abilities really don't match my standards and expectations. I am very independently minded, I hate having any kind of dependency on others and value self sufficiency, plus I am very private about my personal business and don't want anyone sticking their nose in - but my inabilities to work mean I get stuck living with my relatives. I can't afford rent, or anything else, without a job, so I just end up sitting around. The social aspects of working are also impossible for me. People seem to think you just go to work and do a task - if only that were the case. It takes an incredible amount of social cohesion. Plus there are the schedules and so on which I don't do well with and I just end up shutdown. I'm working on this, to be completely independent, it's that important.
I hate the very idea of being looked after in any way. I just wish my functional abilities weren't practically negligible and I could be totally independent.

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13 Mar 2017, 12:03 pm

I would love to be taken care of and not having to be worried again... getting fedup on what people charge for money and why can't they charge mini wage per hour in which I be very happy to pay someone to do..

want to help me then PM me please

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13 Mar 2017, 12:48 pm

I don't want anyone taking care of me. I value my independence.

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