Fixing yourself, not to be confused with getting yourself fixed, is probably not a bad idea.
If you can be more comfortable with yourself, people will be more comfortable with you.
From there a relationship may come. I've always been of the mind to not push to have a relationship, just let it happen. Though I don't doubt people force it and it comes, but it's a personality thing. I don't think most of us here that kind of strong personality (that's not a bad thing though).
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Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest.