Hurray Marknis!! ! I'm so glad you posted something positive about yourself.
I think careful driving could well result from aspie-ness, due to being able to have a more rational and thoughtful consideration of the consequences of less careful driving. Where I live, people now drive as if they are trying out for Nascar and weaving in and out of interstate traffic with only a literal couple of feet between vehicles.
I am very grateful for my tendency for truthfulness in all things. I used to see this as a moral quality and was perhaps a bit too proud of it. Now that I know it is just aspie-ness, I can be truthful and more humble. I'm grateful I can see patterns that are totally opaque to others. I love being alone and exploring places many others fear to go. As wonderful as social occasions may be to those who enjoy them, I am grateful to be excluded whenever possible. I am grateful for being able to turn a rational eye to emotional issues so as to be able to work through them in a way that results in change rather than ever turning over and over in the same muddy quagmire.
Edit: This is NOT being sarcastic. I really mean it, Marknus, that you are great and I'm happy for you.
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