Correcting People

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...Everything is connected ! Man.

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A scientist trying to puzzle out a problem is usually grateful if you point out where he is going wrong. Once he has made up his mind, he is more interested in confirmation than correction. A mother trying to deal with three children has no room in her head for self-doubt. According to how similar someone's situation is to these poles, you can often predict their receptivity. "Authority" exists because in some positions, 99% of the appeals for change are purely self-serving and not worthy of consideration.

I think it's important to take a pragmatic approach to these things. Is it pertinent that they be corrected or is the incorrect statement otherwise benign and irrelevant and does correcting them overlook the greater purpose of the communication where it ultimately only serves to distract from the issue at hand or destroy diplomacy?

When one disregards the greater communication in favor of pointing out technicalities, when one very well knows what the other person means in spite of technical errors, it is often perceived as hostile.

Life aint easy for the compulsively correcting aspie.

Examples of both things, correcting, and abstaining from correcting from way back in school still stick in my memory.

Sometimes you feel like checking into "Correctaholics Anonymous".

No kidding.

Even though I have learned to temper the impulse in the interest of courtesy, it is still there. Always there.

I let it out sometimes while watching TV. Example: If a news anchor or high-ranking official (President #43 was notorious for this) says "nukulur" instead of "nuclear" I lose my mind. I will snap at the screen, "Get it right! You're a public figure! That is an important word. In fact it might kill us all one day. It's not hard. Say it 'noo-clee-ur!'"

I don't correct the average Joe for it, but when your job is public speaking or you actually control nuclear energy or weapons, you had better be able to pronounce the word.

Sorry, pet peeve.

So, how do you pluralize Octopus? Octipides is most correct, but least used.

Perhaps it would help to just cultivate an identity that assumes there will always be a gap between yourself and others. The London Times used to frequently run a little notice in the header for their front page - "Fog in Channel - Continent Isolated"

"Octopi", although "Octopuses" is (regrettably) becoming more acceptable.

So, a Greek root with a Latin ending is correct? Who decides?

People sometimes ask what is the best material for building your own airplane. They are commonly built four different ways, using aluminum, wood, composites, or frame and fabric. The "best" material turns out to be the one you most enjoy working with, from the usual selection. That, in turn, depends heavily upon the chance encounters of youth.

The teacher grading the paper.


(BTW: I also found that "Octopodes" is the most correct plural form for "Octopus".)

And just yesterday on NPR, there was a program about how Ecstasy works on "octopuses" to increase their affection for each other. Drives me crazy when even NPR can't get it correct.

Language is a funny thing.

Usage, to me, depends on a sort of "natural selection."

I'm wondering if "octopuses" as plural for "octopus" has become acceptable in the language because of this "natural selection"?

The overall phraseology/syntax of English has truncated itself since the "heyday" of English in the 18th century. This is because people of all stripes believe that the "truncated" version is the one they want to use.

The same thing happened with words like "knife." Originally, the "k" was not silent." Through "natural selection," though, the pronunciation gradually changed to its present form.

My favorite correction backfire.........



There are definitely times when I can correct people on something. For me it depends on the topic and how relevant or necessary a correction is to the conversation.

Although it's hard for me when, on occasion I've had to fight strong urges to correct someone, to keep mum and just "let it go", I've learned, being nearly 50, that people generally don't appreciate being corrected and generally regard those that correct them as being d*cks. That's been my experience anyway.

OMG!

If a lady who looks and dresses like that tells me that "snuck is not a real word" then... its not a real word!! !!

I would ….just go along with it.

Wherever possible, I try to correct people in private, but even that can backfire. A friend was painting his workshop, and planned on installing glossy black panels to help reflect the light. I offered mirrors, or white paint, with a brief explanation. This may have caused him to check his plans with his wife, the librarian. He hasn't spoken a dozen words to me since.

What does how she dress have to do with her intelligence lvl??? I find that southern people are good for correcting you in public settings no matter who's watching and that is very aggravating especially if you don't know the person. I generally don't correct people because whenever I did that to mom she'd get really mad at me and tell me not to correct her in front of others. She used to tell me that if I did that to the wrong person they would try to fight me or knock me out and this was back home. Down here these people just do it like its nothing <,<