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17 Dec 2018, 7:09 pm

Don’t need attention.

Take things from start to finish.

Zero chance of peer pressure.

Can handle solitude.


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17 Dec 2018, 7:22 pm

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I can be playful, not like childish, but as in fun. Like if my boyfriend cooks a dinner when I come in from work and I don't know what it is, I get him to take the plate from the microwave or oven and I shut my eyes and have a sniff to guess what it is. It's probably rather abnormal but my boyfriend thinks it's funny and he tells me I have a fun way of doing things. But I do have ADHD as well, so it might be a form of hyperactivity too.


it might be ADHD related hyperactivity ^-^ I'm the same, tend to have a very childish sense of humour (but i still appreciate a good pun)


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17 Dec 2018, 11:19 pm

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It is the beginning of the path for an Aspie to become a Nonconformist.

These are some quotes about nonconformist:

Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do. – Rob Siltanen: Apple, "Think Different" campaign

It gives me great pleasure indeed to see the stubbornness of an incorrigible nonconformist warmly acclaimed. - Albert Einstein

Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect. - Mark Twain

Our wretched species is so made that those who walk on the well-trodden path always throw stones at those who are showing a new road. - Voltaire

Not all those who wander are lost. - J.R.R. Tolkien

You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life. - Winston Churchill

Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail. - Ralph Waldo Emerson


The first quote was actually written by Jack Kerouac.


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18 Dec 2018, 9:45 am

Good with routine and structure
Can make plans and follow through (much improved in just the last five years)



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18 Dec 2018, 2:13 pm

Pattern recognition, detailed observations, and hyper focus.


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18 Dec 2018, 2:51 pm

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Even if you hate being autistic with a burning passion, please instead respond with something- however small- good about it or something good it has brought you.

For me, it is the ability to experience intense passion most NTs simply never feel, over stuff they never think about.

[color=#00b2ff] Unique point of view


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18 Dec 2018, 4:08 pm

If I wasn't aspie I wouldn't be a writer because I'm a writer to describe my inner world (which wouldn't exist if I wasn't autistic), and poetry writing requires a lot of focus and attention to detail and prolonged work without financial/social reward, simply the sense of 'a job well done'. I also wouldn't be hyperlexic or have read adult books (not mucky books but things like Orwell. The muckiest I got was Huxley which meant I knew how human reproduction worked on a cellular level long before knowing what sex was) since I was 9. I'd probably have the same attitude to modernist/postmodern lit as I see around me, people who look down on it because it's 'hard'.

The only thing which I'd be better at writing wise is I'd be able to promote better and be less shy. Both me and my editor are on the spectrum and my collection doesn't sell well because of that. We also both have social anxiety though so might be that too.

I like everything about being aspie apart from my meltdowns and my sensory sensitivity. These two things seem to be inherently linked. What I don't like is comorbid disabilities like being dyspraxic.

My favourite thing about autism though has nothing to do with me. It's this guy:
https://www.brainpickings.org/2012/02/1 ... es-trehin/
It's so cool. Also, stereotypically, autistic males 'lack imagination' but this guy doesn't. He has the same sort of imaginary world that I do only on a grand scale and he's really artistic too. I was looking up 'can artists focus on detail in the modern age' since so many pre twentieth century artists do and then nowadays there's a lot of abstraction. This guy does. I love autistic artists :)



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18 Dec 2018, 7:50 pm

Benjamin the Donkey wrote:
jimmy m wrote:
Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do. – Rob Siltanen: Apple, "Think Different" campaign

The first quote was actually written by Jack Kerouac.


Wikipedia gives the credit to Rob Siltanen. Now Wikipedia could be wrong. Around 40% of what we believe to be fact with absolute certainty is actual wrong, so I looked a little deeper.

“Mad Ones,” an excerpt from Kerouac’s 1957 book, On The Road:

“I shambled after as I’ve been doing all my life
after people who interest me,
because the only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live,
mad to talk, mad to be saved,
desirous of everything at the same time,
the ones who never yawn or
say a commonplace thing,
but burn, burn, burn
like fabulous yellow Roman candles
exploding like spiders across the stars
and in the middle you see
the blue centerlight pop
and everybody goes «Awww!»”

Source: Thief Indifferent

I think I will stay with Wikipedia on this one.


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19 Dec 2018, 12:10 am

I have a unique and creative way of looking at the world. I also enjoy being autistic. Another good thing about autism is that I don't care what people think of me for wanting to dress differently.


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19 Dec 2018, 12:31 am

Verbal communication. Autistics are much better at getting the tone of what is being said by the words used, NTwits rely on nonverbal communication for that.

I don't have the problem where people say, "I can't understand you, it sound like your saying *What I'm trying to say*" with autistic people.


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19 Dec 2018, 3:17 am

Gallia wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
I can be playful, not like childish, but as in fun. Like if my boyfriend cooks a dinner when I come in from work and I don't know what it is, I get him to take the plate from the microwave or oven and I shut my eyes and have a sniff to guess what it is. It's probably rather abnormal but my boyfriend thinks it's funny and he tells me I have a fun way of doing things. But I do have ADHD as well, so it might be a form of hyperactivity too.


it might be ADHD related hyperactivity ^-^ I'm the same, tend to have a very childish sense of humour (but i still appreciate a good pun)


I have a silly sense of humour too, but I don't have ADHD.

Sometimes, pure joy.


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19 Dec 2018, 3:20 am

I'm good with languages



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19 Dec 2018, 7:29 am

I'm fortunate that I am in decent health. A lot of people here struggle with much more serious issues than mine.



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19 Dec 2018, 10:53 am

Ever read the big short by Michael Lewis?

There was this guy named Mikel Murry who had aspergers, and was obsessed with finances. He would spend 15 hours a day reading the terms of AAA home loans, loans that were supposed to be the best, the loans that were all but guaranteed to be paid back. Most NTs didn't bother. Hard for them muster the focus to read all those loans, but Mike soon leaned that these AAA loans weren't really AAA loans. The people who took out the loans incomes too low to have any hope of paying the loans back. Mike realized that the gig would be up soon, and that all these loans would lose their value. So he shorted them. That is he borrowed the loans, and sold them with intent of buying them back later when their price went down.

2008 happened. The American economy collapsed, but Mike made millions. He bought back the loans cheep, and gave them back to the people he narrowed them from. To be fair there were NTs who benefited from the financial crisis in a similar fashion, but considering all the NTs who lost their shirts, I think it's safe to say that the ability to focus research, and not get swept up in NT heard behavior helped a lot.



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19 Dec 2018, 12:34 pm

My ability to enjoy being in my own world.