SharonB wrote:
^^ Among other things, you touched on what I am currently experiencing (late 40s) "Compensation for social inadequacies ... inspite of however taxing it is on the individual"
And I felt very strongly when you touched on what my ASD-like mom is currently experiencing (late 70s) "attempt to approximate social grace, which maybe as simple as withdrawing from the social interaction..." It's confusing for me b/c she says she's happy now, her "happiness" is near complete isolation, avoiding all stress (which is looming on the horizon). Is that a happy thing?
seems you touched on thelack of stress thing
, think it depends on anyone person ability to tolerate stress, think as you age , might want less bs in your life. so casual interactions could be , what someone may have learned to thrive on.
But am thinking people are suppose to be social animals .
so guess it gets to be a very individual thing. if a person gets a chance to be older
. Guess its within their own discretion , how they wanna be . That infrequent checking on her , maybe all she needs
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