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Tufted Titmouse

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27 Mar 2020, 4:31 am

Joe90 wrote:

I am engaged and we're supposed to be getting married this spring but obviously that's out of the question thanks to China.

I kinda feel women have it easier to get married. Because men can be forgiving.

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Tufted Titmouse

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27 Mar 2020, 4:38 am

dragonsanddemons wrote:

I both have never even dated and have no interest in doing so, highly doubt I'll ever get married and know I'll probably be happier that way. And for the record, I'm female.

You can probably still find someone. It is more/less difficult depending on where you are on the spectrum.
Can i see your neurodiverse score?
Age?

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Belushi87
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Location: Vancouver, British Columbia

27 Mar 2020, 4:46 am

i'm not married, sometimes i wish i was. i want that type of commitment in my life, but as i get older, i realize that getting married and having kids isn't in the cards for me and i start to believe that if it happens, it happens.

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30 Mar 2020, 12:20 pm

latency wrote:

I find myself interested in talking to people.

I met my wife online, twenty years ago. We'll have been married for sixteen years this October. I wasn't looking for a relationship, but she caught me off-guard.

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CarlM
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30 Mar 2020, 5:01 pm

Married at age 40. We have two daughters.

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31 Mar 2020, 10:22 pm

FletcherArrow wrote:

renaeden wrote:

I picked "Divorced" because there wasn't an option for Separated. My husband and I split in 2010 when he made the decision to transition to female. We lived apart until 2013 when it was in our best interests to live together again (long story). So we've been living together since then but we have separate rooms. My mum is pressing me to start the divorce process because I stand to inherit a lot when my parents pass away and she doesn't want my ex to get any of it.

For whatever it is worth, people with Asperger's have a higher rate of Gender Identity Disorder than NTs.

Did you not want to stay with her once she transitioned? What she Aspie also?

Yes I have read that statistic somewhere. At first I felt all my dreams were dashed when she said she wanted to transition. I was very attracted to her as a male, she was everything I loved. So yeah, I moved out to my parents who were close by so I still went and spent weekends with my ex. I'm not overly proud of it because it seems like I ran away.

She is an Aspie. I met her here on WrongPlanet.

adoylelb90815
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05 Apr 2020, 2:04 pm

Engaged, with plans to get married in May of 2021 if the current virus isn't a concern anymore. Got engaged last December at a party.

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05 Apr 2020, 2:13 pm

Yes. Second time.

jimmy m
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05 Apr 2020, 2:19 pm

Married for over 45 years not and counting. Seems like yesterday.

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05 Apr 2020, 4:43 pm

I'm surprised so few of us are divorced - way below average. I only got divorced I guess because he started behaving in a way that was affecting our kids, very erratic, and he wouldn't see anyone or accept help from me either. If it wasn't for them I'm sure I would have stayed. I was true and faithful to the end though. But I never change my mind once I make an important decision, it had to be done.

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05 Apr 2020, 4:49 pm

No - never dated, either :cry: .

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06 Apr 2020, 11:18 pm

I'm not married and I've never been on a date. It's better this way. I like my freedom too much.

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07 Apr 2020, 2:05 am

wow, I didn't expect I'd be in the minority for having a boyfriend. Interesting.

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07 Apr 2020, 7:24 am

I'm not married but one day, I hope to be able to do so with my current special someone. <3

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08 Apr 2020, 6:27 pm

Not sure what to put since I'm widowed...

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08 Apr 2020, 7:20 pm

Due to being a Aspie man,no and never will be.I have never even dated neither for the same reason.

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