Only comfortable in nature

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yes, this! I love being alone in the woods, on the trails, at the lakes... I am dismayed to meet others on the trail and will change my course radically if I spy another while I am "out there" in most cases. Alone in nature is the only time I don't feel the demands of society and social things, other people pressuring me to meet their expectations and I can shut off the anxiety/part of me which is worried about meeting or fulfilling their demands and the social obligations that are present in any encounter with other humans. What a relief. Peace at last!

Yes. I prefer to be alone in the woods. I prefer being outside. I love the trees and the birds, mushrooms and fish, flowers and snakes.

About 10 years ago I bought a cabin in the woods. The quality of my life has greatly increased.

I'm still haunted by a story I saw recently about someone who has an orphaned beaver in their house. The headline is about "dams" appearing in the doorways, but the caretaker is going to amazing efforts to teach the youngster what a Beaver needs to know, so that it can be released into the wild. What the caretaker does not know is that Beavers are prolific and territorial. The odds of finding suitable, unoccupied Beaver habitat are nearly zero. Their pet is almost sure to become food after a short, terrible journey.
City folk assume that animals are automatically at home in nature, but many species are as fussy about real estate as humans. We hear birds singing. They hear "Move along, if you know what's good for you!"

For a few weeks every summer, the Swifts get aggressive along one stretch of road where I ride my bike, but don't make contact. We get a great variety of birds here, but I can't distinguish most of them.

There's a story in the Yukon about a guy who went out to see what had thawed one spring day, and it was so nice he went for a long walk. The sun started going down before he got bored, so he just built a fire and a lean-to shelter. The next day was really nice, too, so he kept watching the greenery and wildlife re-appearing around him while catching his supper. The next day, he noticed a small airplane flying a search pattern, and thought "Oh, Jeez, somebody had a city kid visiting, and they have wandered off. . . Uh Oh!"
He hustled back home and explained "I just got caught up in the green!"

I love being outside. I've managed to build my whole career around it. It amazes me how many people are afraid to walk alone and be silent in nature, even just in a park. For me, I think there are some very nice things in nature I can't experience with the cloud of a social interaction hovering around me.

There's almost always a big difference between being in Nature and working outside.

As I listed, neither of those are in nature except for the weather. Landscapers may have to work with many poisons. Many of my friends went tree planting, and they never made as much as the loggers who had destroyed the nature. Some contracts paid well, but nothing was guaranteed, and it took considerable skill to pass inspection at any lucrative rate. The isolation was certainly a hardship, and I've heard epic stories about mosquitoes.