Does my bum look big in this?

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Nit pick.

Okay leave out mentioning KK.

Then how is it?

Ironically these days women want big butts. There are work out videos to help you achieve a big bum.

The thing is, the garment probably doesn't look that bad and they won't embarrass themselves by going out in it.

So there's no real point in reaffirming the person's insecurity by saying yes to their question about how bad they look. Just say it looks good and let them get in with their day.

Last edited by hurtloam on 16 Dec 2020, 9:51 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Tell me about it.

The question is obviously begging for a negatory.
It is a cliché.

Last edited by Pepe on 16 Dec 2020, 9:58 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Or else, no sex for the next week,




Evidence!

150 years ago, European women were wearing padding behind: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bustle

I'd add, that's what makes it so beautiful at the end of my answer.

That's when you avoid the question entirely saying something like "That looks great!"

It sounds like a dirty thing for her to ask.

The way you replied sounds like you have been angry with her your whole life and were exploding on her ass.

I'm just kidding.

But she wanted either compliments/attention from you, or reassurance or reassurance of your attraction or was having fun dressing up with you/for you.

Or fashion tips, which saying everything is the same is unhelpful. She wanted a small butt it seems. I wonder if she could have been reassured her big butt is hot.

Women usually see themselves as bigger/fatter than they are. That can be problematic.

Chubbier girls shouldn't try to cover up, I see it often, they can look super hot in tight clothing and beautiful clothes which show their nice features.

What works telling a woman won't work telling the other. That's why my psych often asks 'did that reply work?' 'well... it is the suggested reply but she just exploded in my face'

Your psych is good. That's an excellent question to ask clients.

I wonder if a woman "Yes it does and it looks great, I enjoy seeing your booty" would like that answer?

Would it help me or hurt me to first ask,
"Is there a goal to draw attention toward or to draw attention away from your bum?"

She is wonderful and kind. She agreed to help me for free. Can you believe that?

Maybe sounds selfish if she wants to wear it outside and everyone at the event to see her. Others may not be as tolerant as her husband. She may get rude comments outside. I used to get them every day, but not about weight except when my hormone unbalance made my belly chubby and saleswomen were super rude. 'does she ever work out' while I was running a lot and super strict dieting that made me almost pass out and then I was put on hormones and it automatically slimmed me back .

Still get them about my clothing choices, fabric choices, cost of clothes, simplicity or extravagance. Hairstyle and haircut too [cut my own hair sometimes to my liking].

But seeing queer people be laughed at, it makes sense that being more of yourself is gonna stir things up in some boring people who follow fads. These people can be so rude, they even take pictures without consent

just kiss it and that will tell her all she needs to know.

yere after kissing her ass for a few days let alone weeks, any thing gets boring.
Hard to tell when you have gone without for even a few weeks, but tell you, when you have it on tap,
you wish you had vodka or champagne rather than water.... especially if the tap started to verbally abuse you and expect all sorts of crazy BS out of you.

anyway buts are buts, come in all shapes and sizes, and if that was all it was, then sure, life would be easy.
However, buts are connected to complex and sometimes over complex beings, that are more than enough to make any one go mad!! !!

Rule of thumb....

If the but is big and connected to the best human you have ever met, hooray! then perhaps you can make a go of things....

however, if the same but is connected to the biggest contrary nob who constantly complains about the pea under her pillow, then, just perhaps the but isn't worth the hassle that your getting....


the simple lesson in life is....
not all buts are equal...

some buts really are worth more than others...
choose wisely my friends...