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kraftiekortie
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01 Feb 2021, 7:14 am

There are people who start in their 40s and beyond.



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01 Feb 2021, 8:36 am

Not in this field. There's a lot of agism that goes on in hiring.

And its not just my age. Its all the psychological damage I've accumulated. I have emotional breakdowns on a regular basis.



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01 Feb 2021, 9:09 am

About living in a foreign country, you abilty to "fit in" will vastly depend on that said country. You should be at ease in any country if you know the local language. If you don't, I think you should focus on countries where average people generally speak English rather well, like the Scandinavian countries for example. In any other country, would will have to learn the local language as quickly as possible. For instance, in my country, France, people are not really good when it comes to learn foreign language (which is partly due to pedagogic issues). The average level is improving, but you'll still have to learn French if you want to communicate efficiently in your day to day life.

As for teaching, it happens that I do suffer from anxiety and I had a short exprience as a teacher. I won't lie to you, it is difficult. In my case it was a disaster. To give you some specifics, I'm generally good with kids, and people always told me that I'm also good at explaining things. A friend of mine convinced me that I should become a school teacher. So I tried to become one. As good as I am with kids in small group, I found mysef enable to handle a classroom with 28 7 year old kids. The preparation required was also a nightmare. I often found myself so anxious that I couldn't think. I quit after a few months. Now this was more than a decade ago, and since, I've managed to handle my anxiety to some extend. What I mean, is that you abilty to handle a class will depend on how bad is your anxiety. Yours might be not as bad as mine at the time. I think you that should try to do a short term contract in your own country in order to see how it goes if you don't have any experience. If it doesn't work you will avoid a bad time in a foreign country. If it does work, you'll be more confidant when you'll finally go.



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01 Feb 2021, 6:54 pm

I don't see how I could ever migrate to a Scandinavian country. I don't see any reason why they would be interested in me.



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01 Feb 2021, 9:53 pm

Only you can know whether it will be worth going or not, and whether you'll take the risk.

I've heard of many who moved abroad who feel quite negative about the whole thing while they're in the midst of it, but never of someone who regrets it once s/he has moved back to their country of origin. It is actually more common to miss the experience and want to do it again. Once you've readjusted to your original culture, the experience of having lived abroad is almost universally viewed as an eye-opening experience of self-growth. That remains the same whether you make the move at 20, 30, 40, or 75.

As for Scandinavia ... it has some unique challenges, but in some countries like Sweden, citizens with foreign roots (either immigrated themselves, or their parents did) stands at around 25% of the total population. I'm pretty sure a lot of them are on the spectrum.

In any case, before making any kind of move, the best thing is to visit extensively as a tourist first.



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01 Feb 2021, 10:45 pm

I have a good feeling that your plan is going to work out for you.


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