So sorry you're having to deal with this. I would be doing my all to block any untolerated noise out with my version of music, candlelight, but if this is all inescapable ... I'd likely invest in some noise cushions in at least one room(I have this in my home) for respite. I don't have your prolem btw, but just happen to have that kind of room due to be being musically inclined. Hang in there.
