IsabellaLinton wrote:
If we aren't comfortable identifying, people will never understand.
Probably most people don't need to personally get to know an autistic person to learn not to treat autistic people like s**t, much less require a tag attached that makes it easier to pick them out in public while they're minding their own business.
I live near Toronto, a pretty decent place relative to the rest of the world in terms of discrimination and civility, and yet even without an autism tag of any kind (I don't show anything but very subtle indicators only careful experts might spot) I've been treated very badly several times, including even physical violence, by complete strangers. Not frequently, but if it increases the number of harassments, scams or physically assaults, the benefit isn't worth the cost.
Knowing what kind of people there are out there, if they learn about the vulnerabilities of autists it'd be a serious risk to label yourself overtly in public depending on where you live. Doubly so for female autists who haven't yet learned how horrid people can be or don't know how to refuse and get away from pushy, manipulative people.
Increasing awareness can easily done in other ways that don't involve such personal risks. If you can get yourself out of the kind of trouble that an autism tag might bring and not be impacted by it, then that's fantastic. But as a matter of safety, my advice would be either "at your own risk" or, depending on the person and area, "absolutely do not".
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Thank you deeply for sharing your experiences. I don't feel so alone anymore.