Does Anyone Else Require Specific Directions?

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I need specific directions. When I go places my anxiety kicks in and I could easily miss where I was suppose to go because I was trying to calm my anxiety and second guessing where to stop(I ride public transportation). As far as cooking goes, YES! I messed up beef stroganoff because no where in the recipe that I was following told me to drain the meat and after that I completely lost it and pretty much gave up(my mother came and finished it but, it did taste bad).

I also need specific directions in grocery stores if I'm looking for a specific thing(usually brand name item). If I don't have directions I will most likely miss whatever I went there to get in the first place.
Even doing an assignment in school I need specific instructions. I got a bad grade on a project in my senior year of high school because the teacher didn't give specific instructions on what I was suppose to be doing.

That problem drives me mad. Sometimes there's an audible automatic announcement on the vehicle ("the next stop will be x"), but because services are fragmented into different hands, I rarely know if that's going to be there. I was even on a bus where they had that system running - I relaxed, confident in the knowledge that I didn't need to keep track of where the bus was, and then they turned the damned thing off. I wish they'd either do it or not do it consistently, then I'd know where I stood at least.

Oh yes - I've been the person with a good sense of direction, amongst people with a fair sense of direction - that is I favor such directions mentioning North, South, East, West by specific streets, specific landmarks, places, etc.

I have difficulties asking for directions, and spoken directions can prove diffcult to understand.

Before GPS systems, we always had (old-school) maps handy - that is planning ahead. We've gotten into the habit of planning ahead (computer directions are helpful) before venturing to unfamilliar locations.

For the familliar regions, that sixth sense can also prove helpful.

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I usually carry a compass, map, and reading glasses when I'm walking or cycling in unfamiliar places. I was annoyed to find that a simple magnetic compass doesn't work in a modern car. A smartphone compass app does work though. I still don't know why.