Are you an intimidating person?

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I can look intimidating when I want to, it's more a matter of confidence and how you posture yourself.

It startles me when I realize that someone is frighted or intimidated by me, but unfortunately this happens very often. I do come across as rather intense so I try to look lighter or happier than I feel. I often feel foolish because I think I overdue the light/happy facade but people prefer it and I don't think they often realize it is just an act. The things I do to try to fit in, it's downright silly sometimes, but it works better than acting myself.

Putting your feet up on the vacant chair, closing your eyes, listening to music and pretending to be asleep keeps people away pretty well.