My aspie dad was too trusting and would be hurt when that trust was betrayed. His nt dad did some of that repeatedly and had contempt for his own bio son. I don't believe in gloating over someone else's emotional vulnerability. The similiarity to my grandfather that my father tried to modify in me if not eradicate ends when it comes to bullying. If you see through people, it's no big deal if they behave badly on a personal level but I take it personally when there is bullying. I get angry but not in a hippie liberal way.