Are you too nice or too mean?

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I'm an as*hole.

My, but you're posty today.

Me too. Or as they like to say in the corporate world, "I have a strong personality."

I honestly don't think I'll ever change much. Don't even want to anymore. The people I care about like me the way I am, and the ones I don't like tend to leave me alone.

I'd say I'm too nice on the outside, but too mean within. Does that make sense? People think I'm a nice, friendly fellow, and I am a lot of the time, but I admit to being judgmental and I find myself uncomfortable with particular people a lot of the time.

I vary.
For example, a homeless man came the other night at 3am while I was sat here online, and knocked on my window, asking if I had a blanket... I didn't hesitate to run and give him my new duvet I had recently bought.

On the other hand, if anyone approached me or tries to speak to me in street, I ignore them entirely or tell them where to go.

I'm nice until someone tries to treat me like a door mat.

That's very sweet of you.


I don't know if I'm too nice or too passive; probably the latter. I can be too mean.