Get along with kids?

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Kids are fine until they reach the age of seven. They become mean, afterwards.

My sister works with autistic kids, but thats pretty much the extent of what I know on the subject.

I'm absolutely in love with my son. Even if his screaming(happy or otherwise) make me want to slam my head into something. I just put in ear plugs a lot of days and it's a little easier to take. He's awesome, though.

A lot of other kids, I can't handle. I dislike most. I don't mind being around them, but I don't typically like interacting with them.
I babysat my best-friend's daughter for awhile, she was hard to take. I'm used to my laid back kids who screams when he has an overload. I'm definitely not used to a very needy child, yeah, she never screamed...but she drove me insane. I had to stop watching her. I love her, though.
Most other kids-blah. Every now and again I find one I like.

Oh my gosh --- kids are okay - at a distance.

But people are different ....

I cannot stand kids.

I have a kitten, and he drives me up the wall, though I love him to pieces. but i know that in a month or so he will be far more independant, while it takes a kid a few decades.

I've found that many of them are in need of training in hormonal control. Simple clapping and patting exercises, particularly with a focus on coordination, have proven useful for this instruction. To really handle children well, one must remember to regard at least some of their seizure-like movements and vocalizations as a symptom of this lack of control. Once their catecholamine levels have been brought into check, handling a child is little different from handling a cat or a pooch, and they are fairly even-tempered.

I've always had no troubles getting along with children. Everytime we have family get togethers, whenever I arrive most of my nephews and neices (which is a lot) yell "yay, Jimbo is here!" hehe.

Edit: However I can only handle the bombardment for so long, it can get on my nerves, hehe. But still they calm down after a short while.

Last edited by Jimbogf on 28 Oct 2007, 12:03 am, edited 1 time in total.

kids are great when they are asleep,not so,when they wake up.
hate and cannot tolerate the noise they make,more than the kids themselves.

I think in this day and age you'll find plenty of women who couldn't be happier to go out with a man who's not interested in having kids. It's not even an aspie thing. Look for women who seem independent and have time consuming interests and careers that they'd be reluctant to put on hold.

I've just remembered a dream I had a while back. In the dream, I gave birth to this child - but there was no labour, it just leapt out from between my legs - even though I had clothes on in the dream. It then leapt around the place like a little ADHD mad thing, and I got upset because I couldn't control it. I have had quite a few nightmares about children.