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When does your anxiety trigger the most?
Near big crowds (including open areas) 14%  14%  [ 12 ]
Near big crowds (including open areas) 14%  14%  [ 12 ]
In the car (or any enclosed places) 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
In the car (or any enclosed places) 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Leaving home for somewhere (auto, walk, bike, etc.) 2%  2%  [ 2 ]
Leaving home for somewhere (auto, walk, bike, etc.) 2%  2%  [ 2 ]
Returning home from somewhere (auto, walk, bike, etc.) 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Returning home from somewhere (auto, walk, bike, etc.) 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Communication 22%  22%  [ 19 ]
Communication 22%  22%  [ 19 ]
Health matters (possible hypochondria) 3%  3%  [ 3 ]
Health matters (possible hypochondria) 3%  3%  [ 3 ]
Other causes 6%  6%  [ 5 ]
Other causes 6%  6%  [ 5 ]
Total votes : 86

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10 Aug 2005, 10:42 pm

Most of my anxiety happens when I can't communicate what I want to properly. Which happens rarely, so I rarely get anxious.

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10 Aug 2005, 10:43 pm

Being around unfamiliar people in unfamiliar places.


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11 Aug 2005, 2:33 am

So far no strong majority for Communication as of 12:25 AM PDT on 8/11/2005.
They need 70% or more to win, instead of 2/3 majority.

But so, I am still the only one to select Returning home. Do any of you ever have that feeling you just want to get back to your house about an hour or more away? The chance to lie down, pet your pets, get in the tub, or anything? It's like you can think about it, but it builds up and you really need to get there and then feel unconfortable. As if you aren't gonna make it.

And then for me, comes the body reactions which in turn cause health panic and yowza! Aggrivated anxiety to near panic. I think I mentioned this on top already. I can control it as a passenger, but I wouldn't know anything about it as a driver though. That would give the connection that I don't drive yet.

pictures driving

UGHHHH!! !! !



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11 Aug 2005, 3:03 am

I'm not sure how I'd answer this. I feel like I'm most anxious when I'm at home, which isn't one of the choices. I am too scared to leave the house because so many people have given me the impression there's nothing worth doing outside of it. In the rare occasions that I decide to leave, I sometimes become emotionally neutral; often I hide being anxious and depressed because I have no reason to show it to anyone.

When I went to Commuity College this past school year, I often hated going home because I did not want to go back there; my parents ruined life there for me and all being at home does is add salt to the wound. Worse yet, I'm getting led to believe that the real world is no better because all the "helpful" people are stupid and useless and don't actually give a fu--they don't really care about my problems.

Oh, who am I kidding, I guess I'm anxious everywhere (including here). :( So how would I answer the poll question if I'm only supposed to pick one?



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11 Aug 2005, 3:29 am

childofalessergod wrote:
I'm not sure how I'd answer this. I feel like I'm most anxious when I'm at home, which isn't one of the choices. I am too scared to leave the house because so many people have given me the impression there's nothing worth doing outside of it. In the rare occasions that I decide to leave, I sometimes become emotionally neutral; often I hide being anxious and depressed because I have no reason to show it to anyone.

When I went to Commuity College this past school year, I often hated going home because I did not want to go back there; my parents ruined life there for me and all being at home does is add salt to the wound. Worse yet, I'm getting led to believe that the real world is no better because all the "helpful" people are stupid and useless and don't actually give a fu--they don't really care about my problems.

Oh, who am I kidding, I guess I'm anxious everywhere (including here). :( So how would I answer the poll question if I'm only supposed to pick one?



Well, I would choose the one that makes you the really most tense where you can probably feel it physically. It there is similiarity there, then I would say choose the one that leads to more frustration after. Kind of like "why am I like this for? There should be no reason for it"

As for home, yeah I should've made it a selection since I get my nervous habits and other anxiety like behaviors when I come home from somewhere I had been pretty well active, like a party. Having something fun and interesting can phase out the thoughts that trigger the negativities that tend to strike most during stagnant time, as in doing nothing useful. But as I get home, BAM! Square one agian.



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12 Aug 2005, 11:22 pm

I am most anxious near big crowds or atleast where there are alot of loud noises.

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13 Aug 2005, 10:44 am

Lots of people in a small room is one of the personal nightmares for me.


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13 Aug 2005, 3:08 pm

Prometheus wrote:
Lots of people in a small room is one of the personal nightmares for me.


same,same!

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13 Aug 2005, 11:36 pm

SpaceCase wrote:
Prometheus wrote:
Lots of people in a small room is one of the personal nightmares for me.


same,same!

8O SpaceCase 8O



For me, especially at restaraunts. When it is crowded, I can't on eating and can never finish my plates because I think of choking or feeling ill. I would have to go to the restroom to calm down when the room itself is empty. If not, then I can go outside and get some air, hoping the weather isn't harsh. As I leave for home I can manage to calm down and finish what I take in the doggy bag. At least it doesn't happen too much though as I can go to a restaraunt fine, but still bring the food home, on purpose. :P



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14 Aug 2005, 3:12 am

Crowded Elevators...



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14 Aug 2005, 10:53 am

My anxiety comes when I am trying to communicate.



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15 Aug 2005, 9:07 am

health reasons mainly at the moment
and stuff like placement - i guess that would be communication

I pick up really bizzarre worries - when i first went to dr about them he said did I hear voices and referred me 2 a psychiatrist! (but it is just anxiety not schizophrenia)

I figured out to face up 2 my fears and I cant be anxious forever when I was 18. But now it just means my anxiety jumps quicker from one topic 2 the next not goes away completely



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15 Aug 2005, 10:08 am

Generally speaking, I am afraid of meeting people I know on the street, because then I have to look at them/into their eyes, greet them and (sometimes) have a short conversation.

Nowadays, I do not know why, I am worried that I might get some terminal illness and die young.


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15 Aug 2005, 11:22 am

nox wrote:
Generally speaking, I am afraid of meeting people I know on the street, because then I have to look at them/into their eyes, greet them and (sometimes) have a short conversation.


I have this fear also.


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23 Aug 2005, 2:35 am

Let's see after 12 days. 38 votes, not too shabby. Thanks everyone.

It seems that communication, though a majority, isn't a dominant majority here since it is less than half the votes. Yet I'm still the only one who picked returning home. I know there are many people who freak out while on the road (carsickness, or something) so I feel it as a small surprise or something.

I thought the hypochondria choice would do better since that can really aggravate anxiety to the limits.

But all in all, it looks pretty fair.

Ciao, folks.



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23 Aug 2005, 7:46 am

Ack, I put down communication, cos that's where big misunderstandings happen. However, for me anxiety is more from the big things like majour uni stuff piling up on me, as well as from little things like sitting in a room with other people in it until their noise and movement drives me to the point of insanity!


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