thewllr wrote:
Ok unlike me I was wondering if men don't wash as much or men don't smell as clean as most women?
I think that there is more social pressure for women to smell......unnaturally pristine. A "masculine" smell usually indicates smell of sweat, whereas a "feminine" smell is usually perfume. This, however, will bring my onslaught of anti-patriarchal rhetoric if I were to expound thereupon.
OP,
If you think that your constant anxiety is cause be O.C.D., then cognitive intervention is unlikely to do very much. You have to fulfill your compulsion once it is triggered (the alternative being extreme distress), just like you have to stim when you get the urge. You can either accept the compulsion/anxiety or use an anti-compulsion technique (e.g. snapping a rubber band on your wrist). These are the only solutions of which I know.
(I accept my arrest from the social syntax police. I will use prescriptive language and will not dangle prepositions. Leaving anything to dangle is just.......wrong.)
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"Weia! Waga! Woge, du Welle,
walle zur Wiege! Wagalaweia!
wallala, weiala weia!"
I won't translate it because it doesn't mean anything.