IdahoAspie wrote:
Interesting that you do not tell people about it. Why is that? Don't you find it hard to get by in life with nobody knowing. Many people might think you are really weird, or maybe a jerk, insensative, or something. I don't know, I just don't think I could get through life without some people knowing. I probably would be fired from my job if I didn't let at least my boss know.
3 reasons:
1. I think I cover it pretty well. I don't think anyone who doesn't know me fairly well would notice anything except maybe seeming a bit "off" or odd or eccentric, and anyone who knows me better would (hopefully) know I'm not a jerk...
2. Does anyone really need to know? I would rather have friends who put up with quirks and oddities because they like being friends with me, and not because they're humoring my disability...
3. It still carries a big stigma. Even though a lot of people (maybe most?) would just accept it and be fine with it there will always be people who will judge because of it. Especially since I plan on doing things which depend on my reputation, and frankly jerk beats out mental disability...plus I don't think many people think of me as a jerk.
Plus, it's not like I'm lying to anyone. If a friend (or anyone else I trust) asks me directly I'll go ahead and tell them the truth. If/when I get into a serious relationship with a girlfriend I'd tell her.