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Aridarr
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18 Dec 2007, 1:55 pm

I usually ask my mother to do things like that for me, although I tend to think of it just as laziness. Then again, on the occasions that I have tried to fill in forms, I have ended up confused and frustrated; so from that I have probably developed an aversion to such tasks.


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19 Dec 2007, 1:11 am

dosh wrote:
Sometimes I let letters sit for a week in front of my front door where they've landed as I can't bear to open them. The last 5 letters from my mother-in-law going back several years I have not opened. This is a bit of a problem with bills as sometimes I get several reminders before I pay. I don't understand what it is I fear.


That is so weird. Me too. I feel like I am being challenged. Like it is a one sided conversation that I cannot participate, I have to just take it. And I know I am going to have questions, concerns, arguments I wish to make. I am going to question every line, every point. And I am going to get upset because I will not be able to respond. And I cannot get an instant response right away.

Then of course, I worry about reactions to my concerns. It seems like an adverstion, an unpleasent and forced social contact I don't want to engage in. Like when the phone rings, who is it? And what are they going to say? What am I going to say in response.

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19 Dec 2007, 1:12 am

Aridarr wrote:
I usually ask my mother to do things like that for me, although I tend to think of it just as laziness. Then again, on the occasions that I have tried to fill in forms, I have ended up confused and frustrated; so from that I have probably developed an aversion to such tasks.


I wish my mother would do that for me. Although, people do call my mother because I am unable to respond to mail in the box.

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