Actually, if a school here in the US in following the special education mandates, they can tailor ASD kids programming for them so that the experience is more beneficial. Same goes for universities. By law, the have to make accommodations. I'm seeing in my job, that most parents assume that their kid can't go to school after high school because they won't get the accommodations that were available to them in high school. The reality is that those things must be provided, however, in high school, they are mandated to happen and students have a right to them. After they turn 18 or graduate, those services aren't mandated and the student becomes eligible for them. So, it's all in figuring out what needs to be done and doing it. Gotta open your mouth and ask. If they won't do it, then you take your money somewhere else. It's that easy.
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"All those things that you taught me to fear
I've got them in my garden now
And you're not welcome here" ---Poe