gbollard wrote:
It really does depend on the degree to which a fetus is affected (and how far along it is). My friend has a very autistic brother who was institutionalized at a very young age. He's got no speech and no recognition of his brother or parents. These days they rarely visit him because he's violent and neither he, nor they get any benefit from the visits.
It's a burden/situation I wouldn't wish on anyone.
First I would not wish your situation on anyone either and it saddens me to think of your friends brother. But they do say if someone knows no different, they can be happy in there own way. Just because he is very different, does not mean someone else has the right to end his life - I know not a easy situation or answer for this....
What I really wanted to ask you is it his autism or is it an associated condition that causes his main problems. Autism is not the same as retardation, and often people with mental retardation may be described as having developmental disabilities, global developmental delay, or learning difficulties.
Where as ASD is distinguished in having no general delay in language or cognitive development. Although not mentioned in standard diagnostic criteria, motor clumsiness and atypical use of language are frequently reported.
Its just that if people are on the spectrum, everyone seems to blame that on everything, where as it can quite often be an associated condition that causes the problem. So maybe they will be able to tell if on the spectrum somewhere, but what of all the associated conditions and life factors...
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