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15 Feb 2008, 11:44 pm

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There's someone out there for everyone. They're just a bastard to find.


I think my soul mate died in car crash or something.

Then you'll meet them in heaven if that's the truth :P You can't avoid your soul mate forever!



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15 Feb 2008, 11:46 pm

What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?



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15 Feb 2008, 11:49 pm

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What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?

Try looking with the glass half full (lame expression, but say it enough and it works) instead of half empty :D



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15 Feb 2008, 11:51 pm

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What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)



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15 Feb 2008, 11:54 pm

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What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!



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15 Feb 2008, 11:55 pm

ebec11 wrote:
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What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.



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15 Feb 2008, 11:57 pm

Tequila wrote:
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What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.

Oh...that's what you meant!

There has to be more then one soul mate, out of the billions of people out there. And not all of them are gay I bet :D



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16 Feb 2008, 12:01 am

ebec11 wrote:
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Tequila wrote:
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What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.

Oh...that's what you meant!

There has to be more then one soul mate, out of the billions of people out there. And not all of them are gay I bet :D


see, there you go thinking your soulmate is going to be a sexual thing. Select "Harold and Maude" on your next NetFlix and find out about soulmates.


Merle



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16 Feb 2008, 12:04 am

sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.

Oh...that's what you meant!

There has to be more then one soul mate, out of the billions of people out there. And not all of them are gay I bet :D


see, there you go thinking your soulmate is going to be a sexual thing. Select "Harold and Maude" on your next NetFlix and find out about soulmates.


Merle

I'm not saying it's sexual, but a guy who's gay won't be attracted to you, and so you can't really be a soul mate if that happens. I wasn't being sexual, I can't hide sexuality questions very well so you would know if I asked.



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16 Feb 2008, 12:07 am

ebec11 wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.

Oh...that's what you meant!

There has to be more then one soul mate, out of the billions of people out there. And not all of them are gay I bet :D


see, there you go thinking your soulmate is going to be a sexual thing. Select "Harold and Maude" on your next NetFlix and find out about soulmates.


Merle

I'm not saying it's sexual, but a guy who's gay won't be attracted to you, and so you can't really be a soul mate if that happens. I wasn't being sexual, I can't hide sexuality questions very well so you would know if I asked.


you can love someone and be their soulmate with out being sexually attracted to them. Women can love gay guys and viceversa. . that is the whole plot of "Will and Grace!"



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16 Feb 2008, 12:13 am

sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.

Oh...that's what you meant!

There has to be more then one soul mate, out of the billions of people out there. And not all of them are gay I bet :D


see, there you go thinking your soulmate is going to be a sexual thing. Select "Harold and Maude" on your next NetFlix and find out about soulmates.


Merle

I'm not saying it's sexual, but a guy who's gay won't be attracted to you, and so you can't really be a soul mate if that happens. I wasn't being sexual, I can't hide sexuality questions very well so you would know if I asked.


you can love someone and be their soulmate with out being sexually attracted to them. Women can love gay guys and viceversa. . that is the whole plot of "Will and Grace!"
I'll disagree with you there, but I would rather not fight about it since I'm not changing my opinion (Too stubborn), and I don't think you will, so it'll just become a fight.



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16 Feb 2008, 12:17 am

ebec11 wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.

Oh...that's what you meant!

There has to be more then one soul mate, out of the billions of people out there. And not all of them are gay I bet :D


see, there you go thinking your soulmate is going to be a sexual thing. Select "Harold and Maude" on your next NetFlix and find out about soulmates.


Merle

I'm not saying it's sexual, but a guy who's gay won't be attracted to you, and so you can't really be a soul mate if that happens. I wasn't being sexual, I can't hide sexuality questions very well so you would know if I asked.


you can love someone and be their soulmate with out being sexually attracted to them. Women can love gay guys and viceversa. . that is the whole plot of "Will and Grace!"
I'll disagree with you there, but I would rather not fight about it since I'm not changing my opinion (Too stubborn), and I don't think you will, so it'll just become a fight.


no, a fight is when we don't agree to disagree. This is just a discussion on soulmates. Having had a relationship with a few soulmates in this life, I was just giving the benefit of my experience.

your mileage may vary,

Merle



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16 Feb 2008, 12:19 am

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I equate my loneliness to the fact that I haven't found someone that I can fully trust/follow without feeling guilty or foolish for/about my actions. Everytime I do something to ruin a relationship, even when semi-conscious of the outcome--sometimes it ruins itself. I guess those experiences feed my loneliness which I view as completely irrational.

Loneliness is a stupid feeling. There is no point to it, not with the amount of population this world has. There are billions of people out there, I am certain I can find one who can remove my loneliness.

It is my most irrational thought/feeling.

Either way, despite my pessimism/downside, I always find a way to laugh. 8)

Logically it doesn't make sense, but I've figured out the hard way that your emotions are quite different then your logic :P


I found out that my emotions are overrun by my logic. It is the primary reason why I appear cold and distant. :?



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16 Feb 2008, 12:20 am

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no, a fight is when we don't agree to disagree. This is just a discussion on soulmates. Having had a relationship with a few soulmates in this life, I was just giving the benefit of my experience.

your mileage may vary,

Merle



I believe soulmates can be anyone, not necessarily the person you're attracted to. If it wasn't that I still feel lonely at times, I would call my brother my soul mate...even though I want to kick him at times. 8)



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16 Feb 2008, 12:21 am

ebec11 wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.

Oh...that's what you meant!

There has to be more then one soul mate, out of the billions of people out there. And not all of them are gay I bet :D


see, there you go thinking your soulmate is going to be a sexual thing. Select "Harold and Maude" on your next NetFlix and find out about soulmates.


Merle

I'm not saying it's sexual, but a guy who's gay won't be attracted to you, and so you can't really be a soul mate if that happens. I wasn't being sexual, I can't hide sexuality questions very well so you would know if I asked.


you can love someone and be their soulmate with out being sexually attracted to them. Women can love gay guys and viceversa. . that is the whole plot of "Will and Grace!"
I'll disagree with you there, but I would rather not fight about it since I'm not changing my opinion (Too stubborn), and I don't think you will, so it'll just become a fight.
Mind you, I'm open to suggestion once I start looking for that soulmate, especially since I haven't had a boyfriend yet :P



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16 Feb 2008, 1:52 am

ebec11 wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
ebec11 wrote:
Tequila wrote:
What if you find your soulmate and it turns out he's a cocoa-shunter?

What the heck is a cocoa-shunter? Is that even a job?


Someone who likes going up the Cadbury highway, an uphill gardener, a knob jockey, a poof, Mr. Gaynell. ;)

Oh, it's a joke? Darn lack of sarcasm!


It's an inept attempt at using slang. I meant: what if you found your soulmate and it turned out he/she was gay? You may have a friend but not someone you can set up home with.

Oh...that's what you meant!

There has to be more then one soul mate, out of the billions of people out there. And not all of them are gay I bet :D


see, there you go thinking your soulmate is going to be a sexual thing. Select "Harold and Maude" on your next NetFlix and find out about soulmates.


Merle

I'm not saying it's sexual, but a guy who's gay won't be attracted to you, and so you can't really be a soul mate if that happens. I wasn't being sexual, I can't hide sexuality questions very well so you would know if I asked.


you can love someone and be their soulmate with out being sexually attracted to them. Women can love gay guys and viceversa. . that is the whole plot of "Will and Grace!"
I'll disagree with you there, but I would rather not fight about it since I'm not changing my opinion (Too stubborn), and I don't think you will, so it'll just become a fight.
Mind you, I'm open to suggestion once I start looking for that soulmate, especially since I haven't had a boyfriend yet :P


I have had quite a few boyfriends, several husbands and a few soulmates and will have more, too. So I sorta have a whole different perspective on the deal with soulmates, I suppose.

Merle