Well, considering that Hans Asperger ONLY studied a relatively small group of boys, it seems logical that women are so often undiagnosed (or misdiagnosed). Nobody has really taken the time to study what AS "looks like" in girls or women. This needs to be the next step in autism research, I think.
Also, being a woman myself, I can say from personal experience how often people negate problems I have...probably just because I am a woman- (I know other women who complain of the same thing). I have had some medical problems in the past, which doctors either just ignored, or told me were "okay", when they weren´t. I think people often don´t take women´s problems seriously, because there is this stigma that women are "hysterical" and soft, when it comes to problems.
I saw a documentary once, of a woman who had an AS daughter. She tried to get a diagnosis for her- the mother recognized the same signs of AS in the daughter as she saw in her sons- however, she went through hell trying to get a diagnosis, because somehow the doctors were just reluctant to diagnose her...( ) I bet this happens a lot. Luckily, the mother persevered- she KNEW- and finally got the right diagnosis.
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